Single Men in Brandywine, Maryland, United States

Kohen

• Brandywine

• Maryland
• United States

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Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

Well hello there. Is there truely a match for everyone out there, I believe so. Have meet some great ladies on here and are good friends, and have meet the players also, but it is not what you do in life that makes you it is what you have made yourself to be . So with that being said, those who like to play go away and those who see themselves are a true winner and strive for what they want, more then welcome to stop by and say hi. We all put to much into finding someone but let face it there is someone out there that completes us. I enjoy the very basics in life, and look forward to it each day. AN evening snuggled up watching a movie, chatting about the day, going out on the quad for a liesurely ride, getting the boat out and hitting the lake for those fish to fry over a open fire pit. Yup love a nice evening around the fire relaxing and chatting with friends. I live by one rule, enjoy the day cause you never know what might happen tomorrow. To me age is only a number it is how you feel inside that really matters, have fun in live, take the bull by the horn and go with it, don't let anyone stop you from reaching your goals. If your interested in coming out fishing and relaxing this summer just to kick up your feet , give me a shout, always nice to have company on the lake. Something that both decide together. Meet for dinner, go for coffee, walk along the pier, or even the beach. Who knows what ever is decided.

Maynard

• Brandywine

• Maryland
• United States

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Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

Dear jym,My problem is I want a guy that wants me for more than just sex. So how do I avoid those men.Sincerely,Guarded In Real Life.......Well GIRL, I don’t want to even answer this question because it wouldn't really help you. Even if I had a magic boy love/lust decoder ring, it wouldn't help. It wouldn't help get you what you want, a guy that is into you for more than sex.Why doesn't it help? Because the guy that wants to have sex with you and the guy that wants you for more than just sex….IT IS THE SAME GUY!!!Women in relationships understand this. The guy who empties your puke bucket when you’re sick, is the same guy that lifts up your skirt when you are making chocolate chip cookies. It’s the same guy. It’s me. I have never cheated on a women, I don’t lie to women, I like to talk about my feelings, I know to listen to you and not solve your problems.Men, repeat after me “I can see how you’d feel that way.” And the even more advanced “I see no possible solution to your problem, but I support you in whatever decision you make.” I’ll dance with you at weddings, I’m funny (Not sunglasses on a dog funny, but funny) and I love to cuddle. I’m THAT guy. I’m Oprah’s wet dream.But on a first date, if you let me, I will nail...you...to...the...WALL!!! Gorilla style, you feel me? And that sentence either excited you or repelled you. And for those that didn't like it, remember, say it with me now... “It’s The Same Guy.” I’ll slap your ass, but then bring you Aloe Vera cuz I don’t want your booty red. I’ll pull your hair, but then put a little piece of your hair in my journal and write about how much I love you. At night we will do it like we’re on the Discovery Channel, but in the morning, guess who gets an omelet? The princess does. And not a cheap omelet. Sun-dried tomatoes, feta cheese, whatever I have lying around the house is yours.Say it with me girls “Horny Guy and Nice Guy... Same Guy.”And you know it’s the same guy. But you forget it sometimes. The reason you forget it, is because it is easier to forget it. See, when a man does something that makes you uncomfortable, it’s safer to just make him bad and think things like “Oh my god he was just looking for sex.” or “God why do you guys just have one thing on their mind?” That way, you can vilify him, make him the culprit, and you can justify removing yourself from him. If you stopped and remembered what you really knew you’d have to go “Well the guy just did something that makes me uncomfortable, but I don’t really know his intentions, so I guess I’ll have to take a risk and see what happens.” That’s doesn't feel very safe and in control. And that is what this is all about. Control. You’re more in control if you can bounce the guy. Problem is when you bounce the guy, you are potentially bouncing the guy you wanted to be with.It’s like jealousy. It gets you the opposite of what you wanted.Of course there are men that just want to sleep with you. But, barring extreme cases, you will almost never know who they are. Men are incredibly horny, pent up, occasionally desperate sexual creatures. You put on some tight clothes and make-up and even the best men in the world will strike when blood is thrown in the shark tank. But it doesn't mean that is ALL they want.When you go to a restaurant and you are really hungry, and the waitress asks if you want an appetizer. You are really hungry so you say “Yes.” Well the waitress doesn't say “Is that all you are looking for? Can’ Are you so shallow that you don’t want vegetables?” No. It just means in this moment, you are pretty hungry and something quick and satisfying would really hit the spot. So even though men can sometimes appear sexually preoccupied, it doesn't mean that is who they are all the time. You won’t be dating him and say “Hey want to go watch a movie?” And he’ll say “Sorry, no movies, just sex.” “Hey want to hang out and laugh with me?” “Nope. I hate laughing. Just sex.”I know women like control and like to “know.” But you limit yourself when you think you know something you can’t possible know. I hear women sometimes say “He just wants to sleep with me.” No matter what you see, you don’t really know what he wants. You know why you don’t know? Because WE don’t know. Here is basically what many men do, on some level. We think “Look! Something shiny and vanilla scented is paying attention to me. I’ll play with it until it tells me to go away.” Sometimes we have sex with it, sometimes we fall in love with it. We don’t know. And if we don’t know, you don’t know. Sucks, but kind of freeing when you think of it.Get out of your head, and in the moment. Not only is it fun and you learn more, but being in the moment is when you are likely to make the connection that will actually get horny guy to want to be more than horny guy.The way to get a man to not just want to sleep with you is that he feels a connection with you, he wants to be around. And that connection is formed over time. Time you may not have if you are busy assuming, judging and running.I certainly understand that women need a sense of control, but you have to make calculated risks. Because even at its best you can’t avoid risk. Even when you have done everything “right” life is unpredictable. You can be a perfect driver, follow all the rules, and still somebody can run a red light and take you out. But even though we can be hurt in a car crash, we still get in that car every day, because a fearful life is crippling. Dating is full of calculated risks. Nobody ever died from a guy not calling you back, but loneliness kills.Ultimately it’s a choice you’ll have to make GIRL. Do you want to be safe, or do you want to find love? How does the saying go... “You have to kiss a lot of frogs.” Well you’re probably going to do more than kiss, and they will probably be more attractive than frogs, but the key word in that sentence is “a lot.” Connection is rare, and you have to experience a lot, before you find it.If you sleep with a guy and he doesn't call you back, worst case scenario is, you still got laid. And take it from somebody that had sex once, that is not a bad worst case scenario.

Rees

• Brandywine

• Maryland
• United States

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Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56

Looking for an self confident, independent woman. People describe me as strong independent self inspired. I am self employed. I work hard and play hard when my schedule permits. Enjoy a good meal out or a great meal at home. Enjoy good times with friends and family. Love boating and being on or near water. A couple of steaks on the BBQ with a nice glass of red wine is always a favorite. Something easy and light, coffee or drinks and good conversation. Lets see if there's a spark.

Gentleact

• Brandywine

• Maryland
• United States

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Man. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: woman. In age: 38-58

Hi! My name is Gentleact. I am widowed other african man with kids from Brandywine, Maryland, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Amoz

• Brandywine

• Maryland
• United States

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Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53

You made it this far.... awesome. Thanks for reading. If only you would message now to speed things along lolI am a straight up guy, loyal & hard working single parent with more free time now that the kids are independently awesome! I tried to stop serving cheese but they are hanging on a bit longer at home lolFunny sense of humour... and love to laugh at the craziest stuff. Quotes and sayings are common too.I really like to be active indoors or outside. Any kind of activity in or on the water is perfect. It seems the shower is all the water so far this year!Relaxing time is perfect with bbq and wine or beer on occasion. Hanging out with friends and family & keeping each other out of jail ... what?Very laid back and easy going, whatever happens personality. I will make a decision though, just tell me what it should be :O)Music is fun and I listen to everything, play guitar and sing to lots but it always sounds better with earplugs I am told.Responsible and sensible when I have to be, fun and loving all the time!!!Very comfortable and confident in my single life for the past two years but it would be nice to share all the fun, crazy and special moments in life with someone... ya a partner in fun and mischief. Lets spend the rest of forever figuring it all out!?! I am just a click away from ya right now.Leave a cool message at the tone..... ok Something different. Start a food fight? or eat the food watching a fight/hockey game? See how far a marble will roll down princess street?or whatever you can think of....

Mike

• Brandywine

• Maryland
• United States

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Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: woman. In age: 18-37

Hi! My name is Mike. I am never married catholic caucasian man without kids from Brandywine, Maryland, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Hardy

• Brandywine

• Maryland
• United States

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Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: woman. In age: 45-55

hi i live in the country enjoy the peace and quiet.like nascar atvs snowmobile off road any thing the beach farmers market fires just hangin at home i watch tv but not into the drama shows will watch almost any thing music country and rock im a laid back type guy so give me a try and see why bye for now . well i dont drink cofee but will meet any where its nice to find a quiet place too meet go for a walk or drive what ever we choose together

Crhodes

• Brandywine

• Maryland
• United States

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Man. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

Looking for: woman. In age: 18-38

Hi! My name is Crhodes. I am never married other african man with kids from Brandywine, Maryland, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

Skuyler

• Brandywine

• Maryland
• United States

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Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53

I'm a part time single parent to a couple of good kids. If you're a single parent as well, you'll understand and appreciate the fact that the kids do come first...one of the complications that goes with the new world of dating.I'd like to think that I maintain a pretty good work/life balance and it's something that I'd be happy to find in my ideal mate. I'm comfortable being out and about as I am with a comfy/quiet night at home. That said, I do have and will make time for that special person, should we cross paths. Music wise, you can find pretty much anything on my ipod....well maybe I shouldn't admit to that last one. :)I'm hoping that this is ***characters....more to follow when I get a little more time to put my thoughts to paper.It took me awhile to figure things out and finally catch on to why I've been unable to message many of you. It would appear that I had a typo in my original profile and stated under the doing drugs category...socially. I don't blame any of you for blocking those that do and I would like to clarify that I do not and am in fact very much against drugs....thanksEt oui je suis bilingue. Can be a fun activity or great conversation over drinks or coffee.

Luminouscard

• Brandywine

• Maryland
• United States

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Man. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: woman. In age: 21-36

Hi! My name is Luminouscard. I am never married other african man without kids from Brandywine, Maryland, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.