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Kerry, 46
United States, California, Santa Barbara

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About Me

Hi there! Thanks for stopping by. If you don't read all of my profile then you can't possibly know if you are interested in me. It takes more than a photo to make that decision. So, here are a few things about me: I would love to live by the water and be able to go sailing anytime I wanted. I'm intrigued by nature. So, that tells you I love the beach, mountains, and the beautiful sounds. It's amazing if you stop, look, and listen and not pass it by. I'm passionate about SEC football. I love my Crimson Tide and don't miss a game on TV if I can help it. I would love to have season tickets and go to all the games in an RV and tailgate each game. My goal is to retire and have a simple stress free life and to know what it's like to love and be loved. I want to be someone's princess. :) Don't let that throw you. I'm independent and can take care of myself but I wouldn't mind someone else taking care of me once in awhile. :) It would be nice to know you had someone to lean on. I love music! I believe it speaks to your soul. My interests are a wide range but my favorite musician is Bo Bice. I like classic rock, disco, smooth jazz, easy listening, and more.Lastly, and most importantly, it's mandatory that you be a Christian. I dont' believe relationships will work long term if you aren't equally yoked. Second, I don't date smokers. I'm not putting anyone down. I just know what bothers me. I also prefer to date in my race. Hopefully, I won't offend anyone by saying that but we all have a preference right.Well, thanks for looking at my profile and reading about me. Good luck in your search! Ideal first date would be a picnic by the water with a nice bottle of wine. Well, maybe that's the dream date! Until then, I suppose a chat over a cup of coffee or tea would be nice or even meet for lunch. I'm not looking for a long dinner date until we know there's interest for both of us. I don't want to waste your money or my time. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Japanese Korean
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