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Wilma, 49
United States, California, Santa Barbara

Offline, last seen Wed, 03 Dec 2025 10:08:17

About Me

I have lived a wonderful life so far and would like to continue the next years in a healthy, loving relationship with the right man. I am outgoing, enjoy entertaining friends and family. I cherish my friends and they are like family to me. I would like to find my best friend to live the next chapter of life with. I have no expectations but this is a venue I thought I would try...but if your a random dater or a player we will not get along so need to contact me. I have been single now for 5 years after a 21 year marriage ended... no regrets, when one door closes another one opens. I keep a postive outlook on life and move forward looking for the same with the person I am with. I believe the journey is about the time you spend with the right people and learning to laugh and enjoy each day to the fullest. I work hard and enjoy my business and am passionate about what I do. I am physical fit and take my health serious and would expect my partner to feel the same. I enjoy people...and fun to be around so if you think we may have something in common send me a message. I am unique because I have old fashion morals and was raised with lots of values this makes me who I am proud to be today. My parents have been married 67 years and are my role models. I am a giver not a taker. I attend charity galas and try to give back. I am a good person, faithful just missing that connection to the right man. Drinks on a patio or somewhere quiet where you can talk and learn more about the other person.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro House Canadian Italian Tennis Volleyball
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