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Renee, 49
United States, California, Santa Barbara

Offline, last seen Tue, 30 Sep 2025 17:44:24

About Me

I am a very loyal and hard working lady. I have looked high and low for someone who is compatible with me. I don't believe I am very complicated. It's just a numbers game. I go to work and have a small circle of friends. It is not often that I have the opportunity to meet single men. I am very romantic and passionate. I hope one day to find someone who is more like me than not. No opposites attract please. I like myself and would love to find someone similar. I am looking for an excellent communicator. That is a must !!!! I am looking for a life companion. I have pet allergies so if you have pets it probably won't work. That has created some limitations for me in the area of dating with hopes of developing into a long term relationship. I am looking for long term, and I am aware the pets (family members) aren't going anywhere...LOL. I am so out of luck due to this issue, hence you may see my face here for a while... :( There is someone for everyone, so they say. I am easy going and independent. I enjoy beng social and look for a man who likes socializing too. I tend to be nurturing, and consider myself of above average intelligence. I like a clean and organized home. Not filled to the brim with chachkees. A place that feels warm and inviting, traditional. Love to dine out as well ,casual or fine. I prefer simple delicious food over only an atmosphere and presentation extravaganza. Sometimes invite friends or family over for dinner, well your friends and family probably. Most of my family is in NY. I have lived here for 22 years and love it. I have a quick wit. My friends think I'm funny and beautiful, that’s why I love them !!!! Hope you find the woman of your dreams or a new friend or two. She is out there, but you must be fussy AND realistic about what is required for a satisfying, healthy, long term relationship. I believe I know what I need in my life !!!! About the one I'm looking for... The things I respect in a man are: loyalty, a great sense of humor, integrity, honesty, sincerity, hard working, gentle, tactful, open minded, helpful, willing , spontaneous and romantic. I am looking for a very well rounded person. He's lived a little and learned a lot; just like me. I have a lot to offer in a relationship and want reciprocation. I seriously don't know how or when I will meet the love of my life but I still have hope that he's waiting for me too!! Please don’t be shy…. And don’t make me wait until I find you in this sea of profiles. If my rotary cuff goes first you are so out of luck and we’ll never meet. I’m waiting !!! PS: Please send messages On our first date I’d like to do something fun, dancing, go on a double date. If given choices will steer you in a direction that works for both of us. Once you know me I can be anywhere and have fun. I enjoy stimulating conversation, good food…. Surprise me or I’ll plan our first date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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