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Ruth, 43
United States, Colorado, Pueblo

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About Me

I am not impressed by big bank accounts or flashy things but self sufficiency is certainly a must, so, those in search of sugar mamas need not apply, lol. I do prefer the simple things in life though and would much rather spend my time reading a book, listening to an acoustic set around a camp fire or watching Mother Nature paint the canvas of sky during sunset as opposed to hitting the clubs. "Keeping up with the Joneses" is just not my style...maintaining my own sense of self & style and a connection with Mother Nature is much more my speed. Well, that and amusing myself through messing with the minds of my neighbors by planting the Jedi mind-screw seeds of self preservation. Living in a rough neighborhood requires the need to protect my family and home and I choose to do so in a non-violent fashion while providing myself and my friends with comical entertainment at the same time, lol. I like Harleys and the old school hot rods, especially GTOs, Chevy Cameros from the 60's and VW's (the hippy in me will never die!). I'm a free spirited kind of girl that stays up late &..Gator fan born & raised too...sorry boys, I can't be converted, lol, but I can fully enjoy some football rivalry at game time. Having been THE football season bartender in the small town I'm from was a great deal of fun and that spirited sports rivalry is something that I miss. I am a somewhat social yet very spiritual person with an extremely diverse circle of friends and chosen family. My friends are not chosen by their financial or societal status or what they have to offer beyond true kinship. They are chosen for the heart that they openly show to humanity as well as their ability to make people laugh...some of them ain't right but are funny as all get out, lol, and laughter is just plain good medicine. The things I recognize that my friends have in common is that they look at life with soft eyes, eyes wide with wonder, eyes squinted in laughter, eyes half closed with deep thought or with a questioning mind, eyes closed in solemn gratitude for even the smallest of blessings and, lastly, eyes raised in communion with the Creator of all.I am not here to change anyone as I am too busy working on being a better person than I was the day before. To make this world a better place, change begins within. If you value intellect, respect, trust, honesty, open mindedness, lots of laughter, understanding & communication, then we could very well be off to a good start toward a lasting friendship. If I were a mixed drink the recipe would be 4 parts intelligence, 3 parts sass, 5 parts wisdom & 3 parts class - add to shaker and mix vigorously, add umbrella and a dash of sarcasm...warning, this drink is strong!If you want to know more, drop me a line. Thanks for stopping by, good luck on your journey and I hope you find what it is you are looking for ;)UPDATE: Just because my profile says I am not looking for any kind of commitment does not mean I am here searching for a booty call! Please show some respect and at least a little intelligence. I sincerely love to meet new people but, in being a single mom, time away from home is few and far between. I consider myself an artist in the field of communication, connecting and communicating via phone while getting to know each other is a true gift. That being said an ideal first actual meeting is a casual one where the emphasis is on taking our time creating a piece of brilliant artwork in our communication maybe while watching the glory of a sunset painting the sky.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Music German Portuguese Western
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