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Brenda, 43

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Kids are grown and live in different states....- and healthy and completely allergic to drama - of any kind.....When I'm not at work, I'm either on my computer, hanging out with friends or at the pool. I love going dancing all night my friends and just hearing the loud music - it's my release...or staying home torrenting a movie - completely ok with doing either. Also - No, I can't, won't and refuse to give anyone "discounts" or "hook 'em up" with VZ - so please don't even ask! =) I am probably one of the most "outgoing" people you will ever meet. I find & make friends wherever I am, not a problem for me at all, in any way. I am extremely loving, kind, loyal, romantic, sincere, giving, passionate...I also am very honest, and I will tell you what I think and feel. I am my own person, I know exactly who I am, what I want and what I need.Music?... I won't listen to country - simply because I feel music is suppose to make you feel good, not make you want to put a gun to your head, * What I need * #***Intelligence#2- Ambition / Aka: Employed #3- Sense of humor#4- Monogamous (If you have to research this? Please don't bother.....)#5- Sanity #6- Class & manners ***sorry- I don't do "Redneck") #7- Tolerance / Respect And Grace.....(if you don't know what these qualities mean? Please don't even bother - truly...don't.)#8- Teeth .......(apparently this has to be mentioned - no f***ing clue why- but it obviously has to be.....sry ) #9- No "Hook up's " or "DTF" messages...........SO not happening......again, please don't bother........I've come to the realization from these dating sites, that about 99.8% of people on here do NOT have their sh*t together at all.......and I since I do? That my person should also - and I'm just not in that place anymore ***I've grown, moved passed and healed and I DO have my sh*t together and am happy, drama free, and zero baggage.......and I need that in my person.............apparently that's too much to ask for anymore.....So, if you Don't have your shi* together - please keep looking.............No....seriously ....please! we'll figure it out .............

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-47

    Hi! My name is Rhonda. I am never married catholic caucasian woman with kids from Pueblo, Colorado, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Nicole

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    This is where I try to be funny, but I'm the only one laughing, and those of you that are, are the true geeks, so welcome! I am 41, and yes these photos are recent- I'm told I look 30, but that being said, I really am 41, and also want to date 40 and above. Okay maybe a REALLY mature 36, but warning: I DO NOT WANT ANY MORE KIDS. I have two lovely men in college and they put me through enough hell that God has granted me a "get out of hell free card", true story.P.A), wine, coffee, FOOD, baking cookies, entertaining, reading, art, dancing, and church. Church? gulp, cough....yes I go once in a while and wouldn't mind sharing that with someone. Please no crazy evangelicals, but Lutheran, Presbyterian, Catholic would be great as long as you are ok with drinking and occasional swearing. (I've got the card remember) Not a deal breaker if you respectfully disagree, but if the mere thought offends you, you might want to bolt at this point. I take fairly good care of my body (see exhibit B) if you do not take care of yours on a similar level, I'm probably not interested. Don't need a sugar daddy, been taking care of myself and two boys for a long time, however I'm not interested in sponsoring struggling musicians (cute as you are). I am a muralist, fine artist, designer, teacher, and I'm going back to school to get my Masters, so I'm a pretty busy cookie, but really would like to meet someone special to grow old with. (nostalgic music playing) I'm not materialistic or very high maintenance, unless you know how to fix bikes. Re-read my age requirements, that goes for grandpa Joe too! I am a teacher so PLEASE use the spell-check feature built into this program (the red dashed underline means you are misspelling a word!!!!!!!) Seriously? On the other hand, if you are witty or a smart ass, please inquire within! The best first date I ever had was a 2 hour hike followed by a shooting range (which I had never done before, and was very uncomfortable with), then beer tasting at a brewery, and then dinner at a 5* restaurant. Though we didn't work out because of our age difference, that still goes down in history as one of the best dates ever....can you beat it?

  • Dana

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a person who has had to work really hard to get where I need to go in life and it's made me the woman I am today and for that I'm grateful! Here are some of the aspects of me and what I love to do and where I want to go on my journey in life...First of all, if family is not important and number one to you, then you should probably skip my intro because my family is my world....They are the backbone of who I am and they are alway there , no matter how crazy life gets, or what has happened, it's the love of family that is the glue to hold it all together and get through anything..I am a person who has to make a funny especially when life gets stressful, and so on., that I find I HAVE TO LAUGH no matter what !!! And I like funny people....Not afraid of their sense of humor either! If you don't find Will Ferrell's sense of humor as funny and outrageous as I do, then I'm sorry.....Amazingly funny watching him doing stand-up live......Now thats one odd sense of humor, that's why I love it! I love to listen to music , especially at home and its time to get moving and going especially when its time to open all the windows and clean and when I'm driving , and walking, almost any time I can listen to good music..and my tastes span many genres.......for many reasons! I'm a type of person who also wont tolerate at any time, B.....S....games! Bottom line, don't lie, or waste my time ! Just be upfront from the start, and my respect for you will grow leaps and bounds, even if I never talk to you again, I will know you have some sense of being true to yourself!! That amazing statement of "Being True to Oneself! " or To thine own self be true! They pack a powerful punch when looking in the mirror and realizing "If I'm not true to me, then who will be??? But my most amazing accomplishment, the best thing that ever came into my life, is my handsome and amazing son! He and I have been through a lot together in the last 18 years and he never ever ceases to amaze me and never stops making me proud! Well, here is the sum up of my main ideals and thoughts of my life and of me .....lets see if there is someone out there who is on the same page as I am !!! A first date should be uncomplicated and relaxed.....for myself anyway...a drink and real conversation is a great start! .I don't know what to really say here, being out of the "dating" scene for quite some time , i haven't thought of how a "first date" is going to be.....I believe Things have a way of working themselves out , if you just let them...!

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