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Alyssa, 44
United States, California, Orange

Offline, last seen Sat, 07 Mar 2026 12:27:22

About Me

Easy going, no drama loves the outdoors, cooking for two or ten, love entertaining and enjoy family, schooled formally in Europe, love to travel Intl : Bali, Fiji, Thailand, Japan, India hoping to goto Africa next, seeking a gentlemen who is optmistic, healthy in all aspects, mindful, adventourous, kindhearted, intelligent and affectionate, i love picnics on the beach , bonfires, live music, art galleries, and soft, slow, warm kisses that last three days xxxAppreciate the simple pleasures in life; enjoy adventure travel, scuba diving, sailing, skiing, golf, cooking, movies and the arts, live music, fine dining.Nature is my medicine. Anything outdoors is calming and nurturing. A first rite of passage was living on a sailboat one summer in the islands, survivng mostly on the freshfish, lobster or conch we could catch each day. Second rite of passage; living with a Burmese hilltribe on the northern thailand border, another more recent was camping in a pup-tent with a Rajastani desert tribe in central India. I love to study and take photographs of indigenous cultures and share their story. I am a water baby at heart, have a love for the ocean and mother nature.I Respect a man who is mindful, healthy, passionate and devoted, with a working moral compass and sense of personal integrity. Must be a positive person with a passion for life, see the glass as half full not half empty. Someone who is affectionate, mentally and emotionally stable, (non drug user please). Ideally he would be athletic, striving to learn and grow in life, a spiritually centered individual who is intellectually curious and appreciates that in others.I love to learn with an open mind and try to maintain a hopeful heart in my daily life. Im spiritual and prayerful. I prefer a man who is kind, compassionate, strong, healthy, funny, and a non-smoker. Im easy like a sunday morning; love playdates for two, enjoy the water, nature, cooking for two or ten, wine by the bonfire, intellectual conversation, live music, hottub for two and long, slow, warm, soft kisses I treasure most: family, and true friends and long term life relationships. Enjoy growing tomatoes and tending to my little herb garden and cooking from the daily findsEnjoy the fishing!! Something casual, then lets see if it leads somewhere......perhaps a tiki bar atmosphere with music or a wine tasting or art gallery or beer and a burger at a sports pub is fun too, it dosnt really matter where its the company that counts

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Chinese Middle Eastern Spanish Ice Hockey Sailing
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