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Selma, 45

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About Me

Update June ***: I am officially divorcedOk, after being on this site now on and off for a while I think it’s time for an update. A little bit of background…. Can’t help but feel that this built a strong foundation for humor and “I got your back”, if you know what I mean. Competing over food : ) and attention at the dinner table (aka jokes) has made me realize at this time in my life humor is a wonderful thing to have and I often use it to get through some of the tougher times. Not to say I don’t have a serious side, as I do, but I do love to laugh and enjoy making others laugh as well.I attended college in NYC for Graphic Design and still do freelance work as a Graphic Artist from home. The great thing about this is that I do get to spend a lot of time with my 10 year old & 13 year old. They come first and if your kids are over 18 and you do not want to date someone with younger children I completely understand.I am thankful for the many areas I have lived in in the US as well as overseas. Living in Guam 2x with 2 Super Typhoons under my belt has given me some life experiences that I would not trade. While living in Guam I had the good fortune to be a buyer for a gift shop which once again the travel and the people that I met on my trips make me realize I am privy to some things that some people will never know nor understand. I love being outside and actually enjoy doing yard work. The beach is and will always be a favorite place to go. Love the arts and enjoy diverse conversation.As stated in my original profile, I do not think this is a perfect science. I do believe that it is a combination of personality, chemistry and enjoying each other’s company. And a we bit of a crapshoot if you will. Timing plays a role as well. Looking to be friends first and see if any of the combos are working on both sides. I don’t discount a relationship but am not in any type of rush whatsoever…Ok, that all being said…. Please oh please do not contact me if:a. Married... this to me would be a no brainer... such is not the caseb. No picture... clearly you are hiding something or from someone... move alongc. Interested in "brief encounters" of any kindd. YES! The long awaited for d and here it is….You have pictures of yourself taking pictures of yourself in your bathroom mirror… c’mon work with me here…. Get a friend, heck pay a stranger to take your picture!! Anything but the dreaded “bathroom” picture please!Happy Fishing to all : ) Lot's of good ways to go on a first date.... we'll figure it out

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Amalia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Happy and secure being single, but life was meant for two.If you can leave the toilet seat down...Pretend to be normal 80% of the time... Have fun in any situation...:-D Just looking to date, have some fun and see if there's connection and chemistry to see where it takes us. I'm a successful, career driven women who has learned the fine balance of work and play. Happy fishing and don't catch a barracuda or you're in for it. ;-)*More Later*

  • Penny

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a very outgoing woman who will do just about anything once. I love to be outdoors, in the sun, or in the rain. Going to the beach is my most favorite thing to do. Listening to the waves and reading a good book......aaaahhhhh..... I enjoy going camping, as well as fishing. My son plays baseball and football, and my daughter does cheerleading.I am a very caring person. I am always taking care of someone or someone’s problem . I love to be a care taker. I would give up my own space if it meant I was helping a friend. I tend to put myself out due to being nice. I am also very neat and clean. I enjoy making a clean home. It feels good at the end of the day, to come home to smell goods and a smile….i like to cook also. It makes me happy to see a table full of food and good friends and family!I enjoy country music very much.I like to go where we i can line dance. I always have country music on in my car and my iPod. But from being around my children, I also know most of the hit list. I grew up on old rock and country. I remember having some big, black headphones on, listening to Johnny Cash….Music has many feelings....My goal in life is to be happy where I am in life when my children grow up and move away. I want to be with a friend, partner, companion, lover, husband, etc... I am very spontaneous so I know I need someone who wants to go with me...I take pride in doing for my man. I like to make someone smile and usually it's the little things that make the biggest impact. It's wonderful to wake up to a little lipstick note on the bathroom mirror....Good Morning Beautiful goes a long way...I am not looking for a one nighter, so if that's what you want, please do not waste either of our time!!!!Update::::: so this online dating is just as hard as going out and meeting someone. I have been single, 100% alone...But during that time alone, I found God. I now attend church on a regular basis. I serve in the children's ministry day care in the morning on Sunday. I absolutely love my new life...Now I am hoping to happen across the man God has saved for me..... ***A first date could be anywhere as long as there is good conversation and lots of laughter!!!!

  • Hannah

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a single 40ish young woman that is seeking the friendship and company of a man.. No drama allowed, No Liars allowed, no Alcoholics or Drug addics allowed!! so if your picture isnt you then please don't bother with me..

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