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Bettye, 44

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About Me

I'm not looking for someone perfect, just a good guy for me. After sifting through all the traits I thought I couldn't do without, I really just want someone I totally dig who totally digs me and wants to be with me. Laughter is essential, and in a perfect world I'd love to find someone who pleasantly surprises me (says/does sweet, funny or clever things that I didn't see coming). While not religious at all, I am really spiritual, so hopefully you'll think that's cool. With me you'll get no flash but plenty of substance. I don't wear heels, short skirts or make-up but I'm honestly pretty smart. I think of myself as the perfect balance of earth and sky: I believe in the power and love of energy and a conscious universe, but I'm addicted to Dr. Pepper and reality TV. What about you?A couple amendments: (A) If you are interested in getting to know me, please ask me questions about myself. If I find myself doing all the asking I burn out quickly. In order to respond I'll need more from you than "You are cute," or "Hi, I'm Joe." If you send an empty message like, "How are you?" or something, I'll assume you didn't read this and I'll delete it. This may sound harsh, but openings like that leave me with all the heavy lifting. (B) If you say you want "no drama" you're kind of looking for a unicorn. As women go I'm not that dramatic, but women are dramatic by definition, especially by male standards. Just something to consider. Thanks for reading.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Trina

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hello, I am a beautiful, outgoing, creative, self-made woman. I've been blessed with the big three - smarts, looks, and talent. Looks wise, I'm your all american: blue eyed blond, tall with a nice figure. I like to stay active, playing sports, going to the gym, or just taking a walk in the autumn air. I love to read, usually historical fiction, sci-fi/fantasy, thrillers, or supernatural.I have two cats who are really cute, I'm sure you will love them.My favorite movie is Blade Runner. For a first date, I would prefer to talk a bit online before to see if we really connect or not. If we connect online through correspondence, then a first date that I would like would be a casual dinner and drinks, or could be tea and talking.. or a walk in the park and looking at the fall colors. Anything creative and out of the ordinary would be nice.Please be your Authentic Self.Please do not lie about your age, your height, your shoe size.Why start things with a lie? 30 Helens agree: Honesty is the best Policy :-)

  • May

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Ive been thru many changes in my life. Life's lessons are meant to be a growing experience not a pathway for destruction . I've also learned a lot of things about love. I'm ready to put what I learned into action. Loyal, faithful, caring and affectionate are just some of my qualities. I have a great sense of humor, but when necessary I will be serious. Being a single Mom to two sons is challenging enough, so I am looking for a relationship that will not have so many. Easy going and understanding, spontaneity is always a plus, are some of the qualities I look for. A first date would probably be to have a lunch date. I would prefer talking for awhile on the phone so that I can get an idea of who it is I am going to be meeting, Then maybe a movie if things go right, so that the nerves can relax. I'm pretty open to doing things that are outdoors, especially if it is kid friendly. :)

  • Erma

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I consider myself a positive deaf person who loves my life. I use America Sign Language and of course I can read and write English. LOL I don't believe in playing games, drama and try to treat others with respect and kindness. I believe we teach people how we want to be treated so I attempt now to be as upfront and direct as possible.Most of my family and friends that I'm very cool and fun to hang out with like one of the guys but only better to look at! I can take as much b.s. :D I'm smart, sense of humor, romantic, healthy, easy-going, trusting, spiriting, open-mind and still have a FRAGILE but big heart.I love active outdoors such as hiking, bodyboarding, walking, downhill skiing, yoga, beach, camping, etc.; sunset, silly/ sarcastic mixed with anything discussions, traveling (I have a passport), exploring and photography.I have great friends and family and love spending time with them. I get dressed up and going out on the town is great but also is cooking a meal and watching a good movie or sitting in front of the fireplace or bonfire. I love the arts and can carry on an intellectual/silly conversation over a glass of wine or water. :***P.S. I don't like to share my income information. Improperly. FYI: my income above is B.S. Once we get to know each other if we are right for each other. Then I will tell you how much I make an income. I appreciate your respectful. BIG SMILE. Mahalo***P.S. Those 75 questions; agree or disagree. I don't feel comfortable those silly questions. I rather you get to know me as real person than those silly questions. Agree? Haha...I appreciate it again. MAHALO!***

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