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Nell, 37

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About Me

I'm a single mom looking for someone who is relationship minded. I'm a hard worker and a home owner looking for someone with a similar ethic. I love subculture type music. New wave, old punk, post punk, indie, college rock, psychobilly, garage, glam bands and so on. Going to shows is probably my favorite thing to do. I also love cooking, one of my passions. I love cities, pounding pavement, checking out restaurants, thrift shops, record stores and such. I've recently started collecting vinyl. I honestly don't know why it took me this long, but my ears appreciate it. I'm a baseball fan, go Red Sox! I enjoy the strange, fun and weird. Side shows, carnivals, boardwalks and amusement parks are my idea of fun. I also love playing games like scrabble, yahtzee, trivial pursuit, spades, bones and so on. I really enjoy wittiness and sarcastic banter but loathe pretentiousness. I am looking for a guy who likes a balance between going out and cozy nights in. Self sufficient, giving and down to earth looking for the same:) Weekends are when I work and I'm a terrible night owl. I love old horror, indie movies and documentaries. If you are unemployed, live with your parents, and/or would rather text then have an actual conversation, I am about 15 years older then where your dating pool should be. I am extremely flattered by the messages I get from guys in their early to mid twenties, just looking for someone closer to my age. I'm not biting, but you certainly made my day!!! Last, but not least, if you have nothing nice to say please don't message me. If my looks or profile bother you, move on. I would never negatively take time to message someone and you should have the good judgement to do the same. Pretty simple honestly. Be chivalrous, let's pick an interesting place to eat and share a few hours to talk if it goes the right way.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Mamabear

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    Woman. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-28

    Hi! My name is Mamabear. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from Beaumont, Texas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Marisa

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Prerequisites: Christian•Not Married•Not Separated (that's still MARRIED!) No shirtless pics (looking for a modest man)• No drinking/drunk pics (looking for a man with class & a grown up)• I am a hopeless romantic that wants very much to believe in true love and soulmates despite the fact that I am now ***or 29 for the 9th time as my sister and I prefer to say) and still have not found it...or it hasn't found me, whichever is correct. I thought I had a few times but I was sadly mistaken. Maybe it's not even about "soulmates," but rather two people wanting the same things, attracted to each other mentally, emotionally, and physically, and here is the important part... committed to stand by each other through lifes twists and turns, heartaches, and growing pains. But, I know of a few couples my parents included that were true blue soulmates... so I still believe. I am an independent woman and mother but not so independent that I don't realize that I would be so much better with a life partner. I want him to be my best friend and lover. Unfortunately for me, most of the men I hear from must only read that word "lover," and the rest of my profile is a complete blurrrrrrrrrrr..... Because, it has been my experience that most of the men that have asked me out from here are looking to hook up and nothing else. I am a little too grown up for that. I am after all...a lady. And I still believe that there are some gentlemen out there in the sea of fishies. It is my passion to work with survivors of trauma and eventually get into social policy. I am also a mother of five, yes five amazingly beautiful and fantastic children. If you are still reading this then you obviously did not freak out at the number five so I will disclose a little more info about my entourage. I have four daughters ages 19, 13,11, and 3, and a son who is 17. I share custody of my son and the next two girls. ( I was in a relationship with the oldest fours' father for nearly 13 years; that ended in ***And, my youngest is from a different father, she is primarily with me (I was with her father for 5 years). I'm saying this up front because the question, "are all your children from the same father?" is really tacky and I'd rather just avoid it all together. This way if you ask...I'll know you didn't bother to read my profile. I will not tolerate any form of abuse or ownership in any of my future relationships...been there, done that and I do not care to repeat the cycle. Two people who care about each other should never purposely hurt each other whether it's with words or actions. I've been cheated on and I know how badly that hurts. I have never nor would I ever cheat on someone. I have never understood why people even bother to get into a relationship if they are still wanting to sleep around or date other people. Also, I am not into open relationships... so please do not ask me out if this is something you fantasize about or God help you...practice. I'm completely disgusted by it. Eventually after I am finished with school which will be spring of ***, I would like to keep my options open to either moving somewhere more beautiful with water and mountains preferably or settling into the country somewhere here in Oz. I am a country girl at heart and always will be. Then my mama (a single mom most of my life) moved us to the city... Both places are very much home to me. I have family in both Indy and Pa., but most are in Pa. I do miss it there. My daddy died when I was almost 4. He and my mama were soulmates... in fact she did not find love again until 3 years ago. I sincerely pray to God that I am not a senior citizen before I find my true love. I would like to find a man who takes the lead with our relationship. I do believe men and women are especially created to fill certain roles. I want a man who knows how to lead without controlling. I want and require a man who will adore me. I like a lot of attention and I'll let you know if I'm not getting enough or I'll simply lose interest. Any place that we can interact and get to know each other better is fine. Some things I like are nice restaurants, cafes, hole in the wall diners, Final Fridays, First Fridays, concerts, the zoos, museums, anything outdoors, extreme sports, movies (but not on the first couple dates), church, FLYING, and amusement parks.

  • Nannie

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I've been finding love in all the wrong places so I thought I'd try something different. I am tough but sensitive, I love to meet new people and hang out with friends. I am looking for someone who is easy going, loves to laugh, someone who is spontaneous and enjoys talking. If your interested let's chat and see where it goes from there

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