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Ruthie, 36

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About Me

Hi ya! For starters, I actually look like my pictures. They are all recent and no, I haven't gained 50 pounds since they were taken. Whew! So now that's outta the way. So online dating, huh? The men are afraid to meet someone fat, and the ladies are afraid to meet a serial killer. meetville is chaotic at best. It's free, so I guess that's why you're here too and we all know that we get what we pay for. Sometimes, I find myself scratching my head at how nuts this site can be. Why am I still here then? Good question. I am convinced that I can't possibly be the only sane one. Maybe even the men will start wearing a shirt in all their pictures. A girl can dream, can't she? ;)In short I am looking for someone dynamic, witty, good hearted, emotionally mature, and adventurous that can keep up with me. I'll try most things at least once. I take good care of myself and expect that you haven't let yourself go. * I think bad boys are actually bad. * I do not think texting can replace a real conversation. * I am practical and non materialistic. I've always found flashiness to be a form of arrogance. * I don't wear make-up to run or work out. * Typically, I am attracted to Asian and Caucasian men. * I tend to move at a snail's pace when it comes to beginning a relationship. I need someone that is on the same page with me and treating me like a lady is definitely a must. * I am comfortable around all kinds of people and pride myself on being non judgmental. * I am constantly on a quest to be a 2.0 version of myself. * I am not afraid to get my hands dirtyHobbies/interests: reading, writing, running (love, love mud runs), jewelry design, exploring new places, rock climbing, extreme sports, drawing, trying new food, volunteering, traveling, photography, architecture.Goals: finish MA, perhaps PhD, work on bucket list, find someone fantastic to stand still with, and be the best mom ever (when I finally become one)! What makes me unique: I am super fun, warm hearted, witty, spunky, optimistic, practical but not materialistic, not afraid to get my hands dirty, and a self proclaimed bad ass. I also believe in giving back to the world. I think we all have a purpose and it is to leave the world just a little bit better than we found it.* in your message. Thanks for reading and good luck in your own search!***Coffee, after all it's just a meeting of sorts. No pressure and low key is the best approach.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Shari

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Well new to all of this, but alittle about me I have my life together. Love summer time..love the lake .not much for the bar life but will go fron time to time. I'm a very loving and caring person and hope to find the same. Nothing like keeping each other warm in front of a fire with a movie. Winter is coming..I do have children ane they are my world. So u must like kids!!!!!! I think we should decide togther.

  • Lorene

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm just a simple, sweet, good hearted,honest woman who's looking for my soul mate!!!! I'm not here to play games or to waste anyone's time! I'm looking for something serious and real so if u are NOT... Don't bother leaving me a message!!!!I love life and every day is a blessing!! I'm very family oriented! My kids r my life, and I'm hoping to find someone to share my happiness with!! Lots to discover and lots to love about me... So if interested, you know what to do!!! I'm pretty much open to anything on a first date... But supper is usually a good way to start! So we have enough time to get to know eachother a little better!

  • Melody

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hi I think life is what we make of it, and I want to make the most out of mine.I like to watch a good comedy or romance show, spend time with my nephews, hang out with my friends, cheer on a sports team, and do things around my house. I have a good sense of humor, I am fun to be around. I don't like racist or offensive humor. I might not always have the right words to convey what I want to say, but I try to communicate and share what's on my mind or my heart.I work in software development, but I'm not much of a techie person. I am affectionate, and enjoy being around someone who is the same. Intimacy is important to me. I can be content spending my weekend at home watching football or curled up with my kindle. I do need some social time too...could be a game of cards, a movie, trivia downtown, or sampling some new drinks (I'm experimenting to find different craft beers and wines that I like). I like to try new cool/geeky things out. city wide scavenger hunt. murder mystery dinner... stand up comedy...etc Something simple, comfortable, enjoyable. Maybe dinner at Farren's, or Pool at Jillian's (i'm horrible, but it can be fun to play)... I've actually eanted to go to the planetarium lately - maybe that would be fun...

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