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About Me

Hi ya! For starters, I actually look like my pictures. They are all recent and no, I haven't gained 50 pounds since they were taken. Whew! So now that's outta the way. So online dating, huh? The men are afraid to meet someone fat, and the ladies are afraid to meet a serial killer. meetville is chaotic at best. It's free, so I guess that's why you're here too and we all know that we get what we pay for. Sometimes, I find myself scratching my head at how nuts this site can be. Why am I still here then? Good question. I am convinced that I can't possibly be the only sane one. Maybe even the men will start wearing a shirt in all their pictures. A girl can dream, can't she? ;)In short I am looking for someone dynamic, witty, good hearted, emotionally mature, and adventurous that can keep up with me. I'll try most things at least once. I take good care of myself and expect that you haven't let yourself go. * I think bad boys are actually bad. * I do not think texting can replace a real conversation. * I am practical and non materialistic. I've always found flashiness to be a form of arrogance. * I don't wear make-up to run or work out. * Typically, I am attracted to Asian and Caucasian men. * I tend to move at a snail's pace when it comes to beginning a relationship. I need someone that is on the same page with me and treating me like a lady is definitely a must. * I am comfortable around all kinds of people and pride myself on being non judgmental. * I am constantly on a quest to be a 2.0 version of myself. * I am not afraid to get my hands dirtyHobbies/interests: reading, writing, running (love, love mud runs), jewelry design, exploring new places, rock climbing, extreme sports, drawing, trying new food, volunteering, traveling, photography, architecture.Goals: finish MA, perhaps PhD, work on bucket list, find someone fantastic to stand still with, and be the best mom ever (when I finally become one)! What makes me unique: I am super fun, warm hearted, witty, spunky, optimistic, practical but not materialistic, not afraid to get my hands dirty, and a self proclaimed bad ass. I also believe in giving back to the world. I think we all have a purpose and it is to leave the world just a little bit better than we found it.* in your message. Thanks for reading and good luck in your own search!***Coffee, after all it's just a meeting of sorts. No pressure and low key is the best approach.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Lisa

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I am a soft hearted and caring person. Animals and kids are my passion. I feel bad for judgemental and narrow minded people because they cheat themselves out of a lot of what life has to offer. Hypocritically however I suppose, I myself do become judgemental VERY QUICKLY of anyone that feels that it is ok to talk about another race or a group of people different from themselves in a negative manner....joking or not. We are all here together and I believe in treating all people the way I want to be treated. It's called "The Golden Rule" for a reason! :) I am blessed to be able to say my job is also my hobby and I spend more than the average amount of time doing work at home. When I'm not working, I like to be outside whether it is winter or summer. I enjoy taking the time to experience nature around me. I guess I am a bit of a daydreamer. I like to bike, hike, kayak, and occasionally camp and fish too. I'm sort of a girly girl who doesn't mind getting her hands dirty. I bait my own hook! :- I've never been to either but know the first time I go, I will feel like it is home. I like to relax sitting by a fire and staring at the stars or curling up with a good book and reading for hours. I can also spend hours on the internet absorbing mindless information. I am working on that! Video games and video gamers are not my thing. I like board games but I don't like cards so much (excluding UNO of course). You can play but please don't expect me to play very much. I will sacrifice occasionally for the common good. Meeting for coffee or a drink would be my idea of the ideal first date. I would like to try and experience a bit of the old fashioned feeling of falling for someone in a natural way....friends first and see where it goes from there......if that is at all possible in today's world of online dating. I am not looking to plan our future together at our first meetng.

  • Kristina

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I\'m easy going, adventurous, funny, great sense of humor, honest, caring, very easy to get along with and oh yeah great kisser. I’m looking for a cool, attractive someone who is sweet, laidback, adventurous, passionate.

  • Gracie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    As of today, July 29, ***, I am updating my profile. I have a request of those who see my photo and/or read my profile and want to meet me: In addition to selecting the option that you want to meet me, please send me a message as well. That way, the ice is broken right away and we can start a conversation right off the bat. I don't usually respond to the requests to meet me. I am likely to reply to those who send a message. If nothing else, just say hi, or say hi and that you'd like to meet me or get to know me. Don't be shy. Subtlety is okay in some situations, but I prefer people to be direct and not hide behind a hint. Thanks for taking time to read the note I've added to my profile information.I am looking for an honest, patient, semi old fashioned guy, who likes cooking, dancing, romance (candlelight, dinner, flowers, etc. [not sex]). I am looking for a man who is not looking for sex. I have semi old fashioned, moral views of sex. I am against sex between people who are not married to each other. I won't have sex with anyone without marrying them first. Anyone who is looking for sex can come right out and say that's what they are looking for and then move on and keep looking. They aren't going to get sex from me because I don't put out. "I'm a person, not a toy. If a 'plaything' is what you are looking for, I suggest an electronic gadget or an automobile." If you are looking for a companion and equal partner to make important decisions with, complete large and small tasks with, and have open communication with, whom you wish to treat with respect, then I'm all ears, let's hear about it. I am a worthwhile human being and I deserve to be treated with respect. I am not perfect, by any means. I have problems, granted. Don't we all?I am looking for someone who good marriage material. I have been married once and left my ex-husband in ***. I am looking to get married a second time. If you are not marriage minded and just want to date or have a long-term relationship without getting married, please be up front about that and say so. I am open to meeting people even if they don't want to get married, I just prefer to date marriage-minded gentlemen.Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I appreciate the fact that you took the time to do so. I don't meet guys alone. I have a chaperon with me. So far, my father has been my chaperon. If that makes you nervous, then you probably have something to hide and I probably shouldn't go out with you.

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