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Trudy, 40

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About Me

I am a spirited, spontaneous and intelligent. No one has ever described me as shy.... I have always been a one man type gal. I have had several serious long relationships and now I have determined I must be a "bad picker". I am loyal to a fault and have high standards, I expect as much out of the person I am with as I give. If you don't have trust, you don't have a relationship... On the lighter side...I love horses, music (although I can't really sing) and a good mental sparring match.If you want a pen pal, don't bother or waste my time.....I have great friends and do not want a "virtual relationship"...it irks me...If I don't respond it means I am not interested, I don't like to hurt someone's feelings...there are no good words for rejection....emailing me a second time will only get you blocked.If you only write the word Hi in your first ***, it doesn't matter how much of a match we may be, I will not respond...effort given = effort received.If your from another country please do not write me and try to convince me that a long distance relationship could work...it will never happen..just saying. I want the man to blow my mind. I am the type of girl that believes it doesn't matter what you do, it matters who you are with. I love to try new things..as opposed to revisitng the same thing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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