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Colette, 38

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About Me

I will try and keep this short,I'm a single Mom with 2 girls. I'm doing it by myself w/ very little help from either of their dads. I have a great life, great kids, great family and a few great friends. I don't "NEED" to be in a relationship, it would be nice to start sharing this wonderful life w/someone but I don't have to. I'm very content and very independent. I'm confident and I know just what I want and I won't settle for less. I'm single because I won't just settle to have someone in my life. I want that best friend that makes me smile when I need to smile most, the one that will be by my side when I need him. A little more about me, there are 2 things I don't put up with; Lying/Liars and Laziness. I don't have the patience for either. I'm one of the most honest people you will meet. I'm the one that will say what everyone else wants to say. I take care of myself, I workout ***days a week (if you have never worked out and its obvious you have not pls do NOT send me a message) sorry but I am not attracted to couch potatoes or large men. May be blunt but I'm here to meet people not play games. With my recent move to MN i have been busy and am spending more time on my bike and with family. There's so much more I can say about me but too much to put in words and people stop reading. One last major part of my life is my family, mom, brother, sister in law, sister and I are all very close. My family has always been here for me and always will be, so the man I end up with will need to fit in comfortably. We love the outdoors and spend a lot of time outside doing anything from biking, boating, music in te park or even grilling and sitting around the fire pit.Lets move on to the guy I see myself with some day, it doesn't have to be married. I'm fine w/o all that but I'm not opposed to it either. The first thing I notice is looks, who doesn't, there HAS to be an attraction or there is nothing. Personality is extremely important, I want someone that can take a joke, that can be silly and have fun, yet serious when needed. I want to find that one that makes sparks fly, the one that eventually cares about me the same as I do them. If you are looking for a friends w/ benefits relationship or you are using this site to "get some" move along, I'm NOT interested! I will leave it *** that, I'm an open book so if you have questions just ask me. (I feel as if I need to emphasis w/ Caps since there are those out there that don't take the hints).****UPDATE****No picture odds are favorable you won't get a response! Its not so much what we do of the 1st date but w/ whom I'm with. It's nice to have someone that can speak and isn't afraid to share some personal information to show me he's interested. I can have fun doing anything so I'm up for whatever

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Brandy

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Want to make friends...everyone needs someone to talk to once in a while, although you never know...friendships could lead elsewhere! ; I graduated May 10th with a Master’s Degree and plan on going on to obtain a Doctorate (Ed. D). Even though I consider myself educated, I am just as equally goofy! ? I would like to think that I am a laid back type of person. "Take life day by day, and deal with what is handed to you!!" Being raised by my Grandmother… manners, respect, ma’am’s and sir’s were ingrained. I also have the southern twang in my voice. It annoys me, but it is hard to lose the accent. I cook, clean, fish, hunt, go four-wheel riding, swimming, and sooo much more! I love muscle cars and own a ***Corvette. However, on the other hand, I love to go to the theatre, cruises, movies, art museums, concerts, dinner, or just stay at home and do nothing! My list could go on, but...nahhh!I am looking for something REAL. I am just going to put some of my cards out there. It takes time for me in relationships. I like to take things slow, but I want to know where each person stands. No guessing games or games period. It is important that I spend one-on-one time, not phone-time, together. It is much easier that way to see if there is chemistry. If I tell you I will do something consider it done, even if it is just a simple text or call. I deserve the same respect. I am a mature enough adult to talk or discuss anything. Do not care to fight.-up purposes! ;) Physical attraction is a must. This is not intended to sound shallow, but let’s face it Gentlemen… it matters! Yes, I said MAN! Guess due to my red hair, which is natural, I have been told I was ‘quite a handful’ and ‘something else’ at times. So, I need a man to ‘Take the Bull by the horns’ so to speak! Lol!No high maintenance here. I may look or sound that way, but the dollar menu is great with me!! Lol! I am not looking for a man to pay my bills or take care of me. Although, I have always wanted to be treated like a trophy and shown off.’s Secret Angel, but when I am made to feel sexy and beautiful, a man of mine would be happy! Happiness… Great Concept! ?Hopefully, I have not been intimidating. Take no offense when I say this… If I do not message back, please do not take it personally. I mean no ugliness, rudeness, or disrespect. I wish you the best of luck on your fishing and much, much happiness!Interested....????P.S. When you have your tire slashed by someone you recently dated for a short period of time (yes, I had this happen)...you DO NOT respond as quickly as you may want. Takes two for this 'First Date'.... Suggestioins??? :)

  • Loretta

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hey I'm new to this site my daughter signed me up on here so I figured i'd try it...Here's the deal in a nutshell if you're just interested in a BOOTYCALL or just a HOOKUP PASS on by me because I'M NOT that WOMAN....I'm looking someone that I can be friends with, that will hopefully turn into more down the road...If this sounds like something you're interested in hit me up..... I'm a simple woman, it doesn't take much to make me happy, just treat me Great and Don't lie to me, because I can handle the truth but I WON'T DEAL WITH A LIAR......I'm up to trying different things ...I'm a laid back type of woman ....If you wanna know anything else, Don't be affraid to just ask.. I WANT TO DO AND TRY THINGS THAT I'VE NEVER DONE BEFORE

  • Sofia

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I love football, pretty much all sports. Love the beach, grilling.... playing games...working hard, plus many other things. Would like to meet an interesting someone to share all the funs with.

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