• Fremont
• Nebraska
• United States

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Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

I'm a single mom of a great 16 year old. . He is my priority....he comes first.I am intelligent, witty, sarcastic... but in a good way, honest, caring and very family oriented.I take good care of myself and those I love.First and foremost... I am REAL. I'm looking for the same.I'm kind of hard to get close to... but i'm well worth the effort if you succeed.I want a man with class, intelligence, and confidence.A real man.Someone who realizes quality over quantity.My best friend... the one who makes my belly flutter when I see him. Who makes me smile when I think of him. Short and sweet... unless there is a connection.... then lets skip to the 5th.

• Fremont
• Nebraska
• United States

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Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

Hello, Boys! I just have to put this out front: It seems challenging to even be polite & respond to anyone unless I'm really interested in DATING them b/c a little "Thank You" in response to a compliment means to some guys that I want to go out with them. I'm a social person and a polite one so I like to converse with people. That does not necessarily mean I want to go out with you. I've met some nice guys and hope to also connect with musicians on here. I like to network and I'm typically pretty up-front about where you stand with me. However, as necessary on this site, if I don't respond, unfortunately that means you need to keep looking, and I wish you the best of luck! If you're just looking for sex, pass me by. I'm not "easy" (I respect myself too much) and you can save your lines for the bimbos. If you've lied about your age or have photos from way back, its probably better to be up-front with me. We'd find it out anyway, right? I'm one-of-a-kind and not like most women out there. I'm definitely unique.... I still look young (most say in my late 20's/early 30's) but am old enough to have learned some valuable lessons. I'm all the wiser for it! I'm recreating myself & my life right now... I'm willing to date but I'm really a one man woman & I'm looking for HIM! I'm spiritual, fun-loving, traveled, educated, witty w/ a good sense of humor. I'm into nature, herbs, eating healthy, astrology, & universal truths! I like music & I make my own! I write songs, sing & I like to dance. I play a djembe drum from Africa as well as a little guitar. I'm teaching myself piano and violin. I like rock, (classic, hard, heavy metal & soft), some pop & RnB; LOVE world music as well as some classical & jazz. I'm not a big fan of rap and I really don't like most country. (My Dad had a country band, I'm all burnt out on it). I come from a musical family. I like all different kinds of movie genres and some TV shows, but I'm not glued to the TV or the computer. I like to be OUT in the world! I like to read books, write, including poetry. I'm laid-back and down-to-earth. I can be practical & professional as well. I'm up-front w/ a strong sense of honor, morals, ethics & integrity. I'm looking for someone who is emotionally available & who is as crazy about me as I am about them. I want to be treated like a Queen & have a true partnership. I like to spoil & be spoiled! I am looking for my friend & heart mate! Believe it or not, I've been *** its time for me to be adored! I know my worth & I won't settle for less!What am I looking for? A guy that's at least relatively in shape, has a decent job, preferably has his own house & is financially stable & will spoil me, doesn't have kids (I'd consider grown children), who has above-average intelligence, preferably educated, aware of current events and can keep up with me in a conversation. Unfortunately, I'm not attracted to a man who looks like he could be my dad or grandpa! (Just being honest!) I don't mind a bit of gray if its distinguished looking but I would like someone who has taken care of himself. I'm not really into a big sports guy but I don't mind someone who has their own interests and pursuits, and encourages me to have mine. I want a man who's spiritual but not necessarily religious. I probably wouldn't get on with someone who's staunch Christian unless they're open-minded. Yes, I believe in God but I'm not into dogma! I also don't think I'd get along with someone who is far right/Republican/conservative. Just different ways of thinking. I'm very spiritual and into new age things, like tarot cards, yoga, and studying world religions. If that freaks you out, please move on. I don't ascribe to fear-based thinking. I try to stay positive and am forward thinking with traditional values (like common sense, decency and courtesy... not so common these days!) I have a very active social and family life and travel frequently. I'm big on communication and don't like games (yes, men play them, too!). We should be past all that! I'm very understanding and non-judgmental. I expect the same. Having preferences and boundaries are essential, though! For the record, I refuse to be talked to rudely or treated roughly. Zero tolerance on that. I would consider younger men if they showed considerable maturity and character and are fun to be around. I want someone that can make me laugh... a sense of humor is vital. I have a silly, comedic side and I'm in touch with my inner dork. No ego problems here, just healthy self-esteem. I'm looking for the same in my man. I can be a homebody and cuddle, I like being outside in nature, and I absolutely love to travel. I look forward to world travel in my near future! I'm bohemian and cosmopolitan, well-read and well-rounded. I want a man that I can admire and be proud to walk next to. I'm not looking for the typical guy. There's a lot of nice guys out there, and yes, I'm looking for a nice guy... but I would like more than that. Extraordinary, different, handsome, mature, secure, trustworthy, and open to new things. No one TOO straight laced or 'vanilla', mind you! Someone who's been IN the world but not allowed it to taint them. Maybe I'm searching for a needle in a haystack, but I'm not here to settle. I've already done that and it never works out! I'd rather be alone than settle for less than I want or deserve! I don't want to NEED someone or for someone to NEED me... I'd rather WANT to share my life with someone and vice versa. Please, no needy guys or emotional basket cases looking for some woman to "save" them! Only YOU can save YOU. I come from the heart and I'm not willing to have it broken again... so that means I have to get to know someone. I'm not one to be pushed or directed. That will turn me right off. I usually don't just hand my phone number out... so I probably need to communicate with you on here for a moment at least. I'm willing to meet someone who I think has potential... then if we click, you can have my number and we can move forward. I guard myself and I won't apologize for it, especially in today's crazy world! I want someone to care about me.... narcissists need not apply! Some folks have called me a free spirit & its true...but I can be shy and am definitely monogamous... (faithful & loyal!). In the meantime? I'm going to have fun, date, travel, meet people, explore life! You'll have to really be something to catch this fish! To all the others, I wish you every joy and happiness! I would like to think that there is someone out there for everyone. May we all be blessed to find them! I'm open for coffee, ice cream or meeting up for drinks or dinner. I'd like to chat first, get to know each other...if there's chemistry, then we can go out and get to know each other better.

• Fremont
• Nebraska
• United States

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Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

I am a hardworking, independent woman who loves to laugh and loves to make others laugh.I've been divorced for 21 years, and recently ended a long-term relationship, my choice.Have 4 grown children, and 4 grandchildren, that are a huge part of my life. I don't like to hang out in bars, but do occasionally enjoy going out to have a couple of drinks, and maybe play a few games of pool. I LOVE music. Not crazy about country or rap, but most anything else depending on my mood. Could listen to Def Leppard all day long!.Guess I should update this thing, since a few things have changed. Still missing my Boxer, which I lost several months back, due to brain cancer. My daughter found me a new Boxer puppy for Christmas. He will never replace the first one, but I love him. I could tell you so many things about myself, however, until you get to know me, and see for yourself, it really doesn't matter what I say. Cannot kiss a smoker, or someone who dips. Nothing against you, I just can't do it.I don't tolerate disrespect, or being taken advantage of by anyone.I would say that the thing which makes me unique is the fact that I, unlike most others will not hesitate to walk away from a bad situation. Life is too short to spend it in misery.I don't really know if I should admit this or not, but I laugh at alot of things that other people don't find amusing. Just my personality I guess. My ideal first date would definitely be going somewhere very casual. Maybe have a drink, talk, learn things about each other in a comfortable environment. Just be yourself, because I sure will. No expectations! If I start laughing uncontrollably at something you don't find funny, I give you total clearance to walk away and pretend we never met! This could possibly happen.