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Noemi
Online
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
Hello, Boys! I just have to put this out front: It seems challenging to even be polite & respond to anyone unless I'm really interested in DATING them b/c a little "Thank You" in response to a compliment means to some guys that I want to go out with them. I'm a social person and a polite one so I like to converse with people. That does not necessarily mean I want to go out with you. I've met some nice guys and hope to also connect with musicians on here. I like to network and I'm typically pretty up-front about where you stand with me. However, as necessary on this site, if I don't respond, unfortunately that means you need to keep looking, and I wish you the best of luck! If you're just looking for sex, pass me by. I'm not "easy" (I respect myself too much) and you can save your lines for the bimbos. If you've lied about your age or have photos from way back, its probably better to be up-front with me. We'd find it out anyway, right? I'm one-of-a-kind and not like most women out there. I'm definitely unique.... I still look young (most say in my late 20's/early 30's) but am old enough to have learned some valuable lessons. I'm all the wiser for it! I'm recreating myself & my life right now... I'm willing to date but I'm really a one man woman & I'm looking for HIM! I'm spiritual, fun-loving, traveled, educated, witty w/ a good sense of humor. I'm into nature, herbs, eating healthy, astrology, & universal truths! I like music & I make my own! I write songs, sing & I like to dance. I play a djembe drum from Africa as well as a little guitar. I'm teaching myself piano and violin. I like rock, (classic, hard, heavy metal & soft), some pop & RnB; LOVE world music as well as some classical & jazz. I'm not a big fan of rap and I really don't like most country. (My Dad had a country band, I'm all burnt out on it). I come from a musical family. I like all different kinds of movie genres and some TV shows, but I'm not glued to the TV or the computer. I like to be OUT in the world! I like to read books, write, including poetry. I'm laid-back and down-to-earth. I can be practical & professional as well. I'm up-front w/ a strong sense of honor, morals, ethics & integrity. I'm looking for someone who is emotionally available & who is as crazy about me as I am about them. I want to be treated like a Queen & have a true partnership. I like to spoil & be spoiled! I am looking for my friend & heart mate! Believe it or not, I've been *** its time for me to be adored! I know my worth & I won't settle for less!What am I looking for? A guy that's at least relatively in shape, has a decent job, preferably has his own house & is financially stable & will spoil me, doesn't have kids (I'd consider grown children), who has above-average intelligence, preferably educated, aware of current events and can keep up with me in a conversation. Unfortunately, I'm not attracted to a man who looks like he could be my dad or grandpa! (Just being honest!) I don't mind a bit of gray if its distinguished looking but I would like someone who has taken care of himself. I'm not really into a big sports guy but I don't mind someone who has their own interests and pursuits, and encourages me to have mine. I want a man who's spiritual but not necessarily religious. I probably wouldn't get on with someone who's staunch Christian unless they're open-minded. Yes, I believe in God but I'm not into dogma! I also don't think I'd get along with someone who is far right/Republican/conservative. Just different ways of thinking. I'm very spiritual and into new age things, like tarot cards, yoga, and studying world religions. If that freaks you out, please move on. I don't ascribe to fear-based thinking. I try to stay positive and am forward thinking with traditional values (like common sense, decency and courtesy... not so common these days!) I have a very active social and family life and travel frequently. I'm big on communication and don't like games (yes, men play them, too!). We should be past all that! I'm very understanding and non-judgmental. I expect the same. Having preferences and boundaries are essential, though! For the record, I refuse to be talked to rudely or treated roughly. Zero tolerance on that. I would consider younger men if they showed considerable maturity and character and are fun to be around. I want someone that can make me laugh... a sense of humor is vital. I have a silly, comedic side and I'm in touch with my inner dork. No ego problems here, just healthy self-esteem. I'm looking for the same in my man. I can be a homebody and cuddle, I like being outside in nature, and I absolutely love to travel. I look forward to world travel in my near future! I'm bohemian and cosmopolitan, well-read and well-rounded. I want a man that I can admire and be proud to walk next to. I'm not looking for the typical guy. There's a lot of nice guys out there, and yes, I'm looking for a nice guy... but I would like more than that. Extraordinary, different, handsome, mature, secure, trustworthy, and open to new things. No one TOO straight laced or 'vanilla', mind you! Someone who's been IN the world but not allowed it to taint them. Maybe I'm searching for a needle in a haystack, but I'm not here to settle. I've already done that and it never works out! I'd rather be alone than settle for less than I want or deserve! I don't want to NEED someone or for someone to NEED me... I'd rather WANT to share my life with someone and vice versa. Please, no needy guys or emotional basket cases looking for some woman to "save" them! Only YOU can save YOU. I come from the heart and I'm not willing to have it broken again... so that means I have to get to know someone. I'm not one to be pushed or directed. That will turn me right off. I usually don't just hand my phone number out... so I probably need to communicate with you on here for a moment at least. I'm willing to meet someone who I think has potential... then if we click, you can have my number and we can move forward. I guard myself and I won't apologize for it, especially in today's crazy world! I want someone to care about me.... narcissists need not apply! Some folks have called me a free spirit & its true...but I can be shy and am definitely monogamous... (faithful & loyal!). In the meantime? I'm going to have fun, date, travel, meet people, explore life! You'll have to really be something to catch this fish! To all the others, I wish you every joy and happiness! I would like to think that there is someone out there for everyone. May we all be blessed to find them! I'm open for coffee, ice cream or meeting up for drinks or dinner. I'd like to chat first, get to know each other...if there's chemistry, then we can go out and get to know each other better.
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Ceara
Online
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 45-55
I am a easygoing person but I do like to have fun.my kids are my life love to hang out with them. I have been divorced for five years and have not dated would like to meet someone who is fun to be around and we can just hang out together.Very low key person and I know who I am and what is good for me don't like a lot of drama.Would like someone close to my age or a little younger not much older. I like to go and listen to a live band a place where we can talk and get to know each other.I do like the nightlife but not into heavy drinking never leads anywhere good.
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Merrilyn
Online
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
Just returned to W. PA after living/working out of state for nearly a year ... many things have changed. I'm curious to see where my new chapter leads!I'm seeking to meet a younger gentleman, who's fit, athletic, focused and driven ... knows where he's going in life and where he's been! It's life we're living, we've all had relationships, memories, good and some bad… I only ask that you don't bring any drama along with you!My family and friends are important to me and my work occupies much of my time. I can be flexible with my time. I understand we all have a life and commitments (work, family, kids) and respect that. I'm selective when it comes to dating. If I don't think we have a connection after talking or texting, I'm not going to agree to meet you. I'm only looking for one gentleman to share quality time with and life's adventures and see where things go! No expectations ... You can't plan the unknown but you can embrace the present and enjoy life! The worst case scenario ... you meet a new friend! I typically date younger ... Because I've found that most older, do not embrace my lifestyle. Yes, age is just a number that I refuse to be defined by ... In all honesty, if we don't have anything in common or you're sitting back and watching life pass by ... It's not age that matters it's the way in which you're living life! Of course, there are exceptions to every rule. I've just found typically, if older it seems as though the majority do not embrace the same lifestyle that I do. Life is about living and experiencing the adventures it has to offer! That said, I am not interested in dating someone under 30, in fact not under 35.I'm living life's adventure, in ***I was offered a position out-of-state. I've been blessed to have the opportunity and not say I wish I would have, I wish I could have because I did! I enjoy outdoor activities, hiking, kayaking, going to the gym regularly, live a fit, active, healthy lifestyle and try to eat healthy, plus traveling too. My daughter lives in LA so at times I'm bicoastal.; Pirates!I do have ink and yes that means tattoos! It needs no explanation other than if that's a hang up for you, dating a tattooed lady ... I wish you luck, we are not a match.I have pets and if you're allergic ... Sorry, not negotiable ... Try Benadryl! :)I am not interested if you are married or you're looking for a casual hookup! Please pass me by and don't write me to change my mind and don't lie about it ... it's always a definite No! Zero drama! Please and Thank you!I do apologize if you used the favorites feature here ...If you are looking for endless *** text messages and you are similar to the fine print on a rearview mirror aka you are not who you appear to be ... or say you are ... don't waste my time or yours! I'm open, confident, outgoing, active, artistic, optimistic, possess a great sense of humor and what you see is what you get ... please do not mistake my confidence for arrogance. I'm a great communicator, honest (at times, brutally honest) and I do expect the same in return. I'm a hopeful romantic ... Yes there is a very passionate side of me but that's not a topic for general conversation with just anyone.I've been single for 6 years (by choice). I'm very comfortable and secure in who I am and who I'm seeking to share some laughs, life's adventures, maybe a sporting event, movie ... etc. If you have any questions just ask! I'm sure we can figure that out together . . . Let's talk maybe sporting event, concert or surprise me! Just no movie night ... we need to communicate, not quietly watch a movie for 2 hours. :)