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Alissa, 51
United States, Illinois, Naperville

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About Me

I can laugh at myself and find humor in almost anything. I will share that gift of laughter in return. Life is an adventure and staying active is the key to staying young. I wake up every morning with a smile to start a new day and face the challenges that come my way. What I want out of life is pretty easy to explain and it boils down to "a partner to share dreams with everyday". Is that original or does everyone put this in their profile? My attitude is dreams do come true and I am not willing to settle! I accept people for being themselves and hope to learn and grow with someone. Just enjoying a moment in time and remembering how to live in the moment. Dating is really quite simple...just enjoy the time you spend with the person and have hope that they enjoy spending time with you. Dating should never feel like pressure or be uncomfortable for either person. It is about sharing dreams and living them everyday. I guess you could say... "I'm still a dreamer". If you like building and living your dreams and sharing that part of yourself... please write me a note. Life is what you make of it. If you are you on here just looking for the next best thing......PLEASE move along and jump on the next profile. Just an FYI.... Actions speak louder than any words! Major Turn Offs:- Asking me to pay your child support after a first meeting- Pretending to be someone you're not- Lying - Smoking- Married- Rude to other people Turn Ons- Being a good father- Humor- Great smile- Responsible and loyal- Honesty (you earn my respect quickly)- Understands values & prioritiesBest wishes to you and your search. How about I pay for the first meeting? Maybe a picnic outside by a lake?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French Korean Spanish Thai Drag Racing
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