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Ruthie, 52

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Let's see ... turned 53 in ***, British- People who know me think I am pretty, smart, kind, wicked witty, (what Brit isn't?) affectionate, compassionate, responsible, and happily, a child at heart! I come with a very, very, very tiny suitcase, so I expect the same from you. I like living in the present and future, and learning from the past. Don't have kids, but I am I perfectly happy if you do.I have a roaming spirit and passion for travel, especially to the old continent exploring ancient cities, shores, cultures, weekend getaways, cultural events, and enjoy activities that evoke feelings of peace ... nature, ocean waves, yoga, meditation. Exploring the universe can get a bit lonely by yourself though ... e.g., you come across some amazing artifact, or incredible seascape, and exclaim your amazement since you are alone... to a curious blackbird ... "You must adore living here, it's so beautiful!" rather than to your also awed absent travel mate. So yes, this girl wants a boy to see more ancient sites, cities and architecture with. I am open and willing to share in your passions and hopefully create and explore new ones together. I have studied spirituality and theology and resonate with Buddhism mostly and raised Methodist. Love the ocean and any activities affiliated ... One intent is to rent a baby blue 50's classic convertible and drive Route 66 from coast to coast only staying in ***'s motels along the way to make it authentic. Enjoy horse riding, tennis and anything aviation, and I create large oil paintings when the spirit moves me, which rejuvenates my soul. Oh, and art gallery exhibits and music/art/wine festivals. Dancing salsa and western? ... can do. My most favourite adventure has to be a month's sailing 1st mate on Captain Sam's 52' teak-decked "Alluvian.".. medieval villages, sculptures, galleries, ethnic wine ... wine ... Being a counselor by trade, I'm a keen listener and communicator with lots of intelligent thoughts about the world around me, but I like two~way conversation and debate... fiscally stable and responsible with retirement by 60ish in the cards. You don't have to like everything I do, but you must want to travel and adventure with me at least once a year. I seek and envision a healthy and loving relationship ... rather like an affinity moving two people in unison, who share similar values, and live a shared serenity ... perfection desired, but not expected (poetic? I'm not always on the go, but I prefer outdoor activities to the gym. I don't mind being alone in the least, but I do want somone I can spoil, cuddle, hold hands, cook with, kiss alot, love on and give my attention to, and vise versa, of course.; as she is smart, funny, pretty, and not afraid to make fun of herself, or speak her mind. I don't wear a lot of makeup, but always willing to create different looks to please my man. If you have read to the end ... bravo zulu ... write me a note. :) coffee or a glass of wine to get to know each other ensuring neither are mentally ill, or serial killers ... then plan a longer date if we both survive. ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Saundra

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am a person who believes in destiny..however I feel I cant be everywhere ..Thats why I chose to go on this site...Maybe someone like me will be on here too...I can be alone but would love to share my life with someone i can be comfortable and excited to be with. I must be attracted to someone but also need to have a lot in common. I want someone who is confident in himself . Natural and comfortable..I know immediately if I can see myself with this man again...We cant say enough and find we have a lot in common. It is wonderful to feel you have someone wonderful to look forward to seeing again.

  • Tasha

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi! and thanks for stopping by... I am here hoping to find my best friend, my lover, my confidant and my life companion. I understand that sometimes two people that have similar interests just may not click when they meet. That's OK, that is life! We are all adults here. I am not into weeks of texting or messaging and talking on the phone, if we share the same interests lets meet somewhere, face-to-face, and see what happens! The worst that can happen is there is no "spark"...no harm, no foul, and not a lot of wasted time...If you find someone else or decide we are not a good match, tell me! I have feelings, and it hurts when people just suddenly stop texting/calling/whatever...and you don't have to lie to me!I can weep at a chick flick or cuss out a ref that makes a bad call while watching my fave football team...I am one heck of a cook but enjoy having help in the kitchen too. i am honest, straightforward, rather old-fashioned in many ways, and was raised with an appreciation of the finer things in life, and the value of hard work. I worked hard for 25 years and am paying for it now. lol...everything works, i am just a little slower than I was at 20! I am by no means perfect and am not looking for perfection, just a real man who is perfect to me!I am looking for a man that wants to meet his best friend/lover/confidant and life companion. You must be honest, straightforward, and know how to and be willing to communicate! If you work 60 or more hours a week and want to spend your spare time with your kids, why are you here? just sayin... Being able to dress up for a night at the symphony is a plus...as is knowing how to cook both on charcoal and gas grills! I live with my Dad, and am quite content to continue to do so. I will answer every message that is sent to me, even if it is just to say "sorry, not interested"!. I would NEVER be rude to someone and *** message! Please don't add me to your favorites without sendiing me a message, it confuses me! lol (is he interested? is he not?...) same with the MEET ME feature, just drop me a line for goodness sake! I'm a nice person! If I drop you a line like so many of you say you want if a woman is interested, can you not at least acknowledge that? Even if it is just "no thanks"? I am NOT looking for fwbs or one-nighters. Sorry, I am just not into big-bodied men! I like all music, from Mozart to Metallica, and everything in between except rap and hip-hop. i still love life and get enthused about the good things!Going to the symphony, the theater, out to see a good blues band, a ball game, or the tractor pulls at the fair are some things I enjoy.Walking in the park or on the beach, sitting on the back porch watching the sun rise (or set) are also good times. Road trips are fun too, both planned and spontaneous! I have a great sense of humor and can laugh at myself when I have a blonde moment. I am well-read and never intend to stop learning. I have patience for just about everything except willful stupidity and deception! I am not into the bar or club scene, I just don't drink much, but will go see a good band. I love animals, and have owned many different kinds over the years. I have a valid passport, and would love to see more of the world someday. I enjoy the slower pace of country life and the culture available in cities.I prefer small gatherings to large parties, don't need to have money spent on me to have a good time, appreciate the gift of a compliment when warranted more than a thousand birthday gifts on that one day of the year. I am very affectionate, and passionate and want someone that is the same. I will be your cheerleader 110%, I am not into drama, and will NOT fight with anyone! If you are still interested, and feel you and I would be a possibilty, drop me a line...if not, good luck! Meet somewhere for coffee and chat.

  • Graciela

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Oh God! Oh God! I just turned 52! Crap! When did I get so old?! AARP won't leave me alone. They keep sending me stuff in the mail. I'm gonna get old, toothless! I'm gonna have to hang out at the senior center playing mahjong and gin rummy with old people! Quick, I need a drink!I'm bored! I buy shoes and clothes when I'm bored so right about now I could shod and clothe a small, but very fashionable, village......I might even move on to a new couch. If your out there, hurry up and fall in love with me, keep me busy, because there is a very real possibility that I might have to sell one of my kidneys on line just to pay my bills........I love that feeling of butterfly's in my stomach when I meet that guy. Your heart thumps in your chest, your pupils dilate, you feel breathless and shy and bold and tongue tied, you feel a goofy grin spread across your face all at the same time. I think it's the best sensation a person can possibly experience. I would love a man with confidence, independence and a great sense of humor. A man who can be a little silly at times. A man who kisses me at a red light with his hand on my thigh, someone who can laugh at himself when he does or says something kinda dumb. I love a man who will put his hand on the small of my back while we are walking, a man who, when he looks at me, sees me and only me. I love a man who will give me a nice compliment because he knows it will make me happy to hear it. These are some of the things that I love in a man........A friend told me once that when I talk I do not have a filter. I thought about it for a while and decided that he was right. That's me in a nutshell. No filter. Some peoples mouths literally fall open with surprise when I speak. Or, they look at me with dismay in their eyes. I am feisty, sarcastic, confident, very extroverted and fun. If I tease you that just means that I like you. That's how I show affection. Not sure why exactly.............. I tend to live in the moment and not think to much on the future. (my 401k plan can attest to that. Damn, I really should put more money into it) This really exasperates some people, so be warned. Sometimes I snort when I laugh, not very ladylike, but there it is. Life is pretty damn fun most of the time, so I try to enjoy the moments as much as possible. Small moments, stacked upon one another, make a life........I love..........my Kindle, wearing nice tight jeans, listening to loud music while driving very fast, going for long drives, eating great food, laughing loudly, Burberry Brit perfume, lemon flavored vodka, intimacy, Saturday afternoon's, "The Hammer of the Gods" Zeppelin! The sunroof in my car, digging my toes into hot sand at the beach, sunny days, wearing a new pair of shoes! UPDATE: I've bought a couch! This is what I have been reduced to! No love, nobody to keep me busy and my kidney was just put on e-bay....... Ooooops! I gotta go, just got a bid........Hmmm, a man wants to meet me in the park at midnight regarding my kidney, he told me to bring lots of ice. This doesn't sound good. I nice intimate dinner with wine or beer or ........

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