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Gilda, 52
United States, Kansas, Overland Park

Offline, last seen Wed, 18 Feb 2026 06:25:17

About Me

here I am again... Reluctant Participant..Can't go any further until I add something here. There's always a catch...I supposed you could call me a reluctant participant. I don't know anyone who is comfortable having to come up with a 'personality resume'. I'm just checking things out***updateI know at this age I am supposed to know who I am, and what I want out of life. Well, surprise ... I know who I was and that I was good at it - House is still standing, I have 2 amazing successful daughters, a son who is still working out his kinks, all grown and moved into their own lives. Now its time to discover who the empty nester me is. I am a social person, spent many years as an advocate for the Learning Disabled and special education, am somewhat active in my community politically - have no tolerance for the BS so it limits my involvement. I work in the town I live in which is a blessing in itself I love learning new things about myself - being exposed to what is outside my box - discovering me.. I have been sailing the past few years, love it!! Love being on the back of a Harley, its the sound not the vibration...Wish I was more creative - can't draw a stick figure but I love and appreciate great art - from homegrown to museums, theater, music... I love being in NYC or PHILLY or DC - just loathe getting there lol so it seems when I'm 'doing' its about the journey, when I'm appreciating its about the destination.I love to dance - usually around the house as going to bars/clubs got old - or was it me that got old?? That crowd gets younger and younger every time I venture out lolA lot of the profiles I've read have comments about 'normal women' or lack there of. Makes me wonder what normal is? I am independent, don't want or need anyone to 'take care of me' - that seems to intimidate many so if you're looking to rescue someone I'm not your girl. If you're looking for someone to grow with and discover what is behind that door change has opened give me a shout.now the required: Discovery, History, Animal Planet...)Red Sox over Yankees - Patriots over Giants - grew up in CT!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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