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Lidia, 25
United States, New Jersey, Paterson

Offline, last seen Sun, 15 Feb 2026 14:25:50

About Me

I'm an honest gal, sometimes too honest. I think honesty is the best policy. I do my best to always be honest. I always appreciate someone who can be upfront and 100. It's good character. I do things with my whole heart. I love that about me however, sometimes it's a pain. If its helping a friend, my family, my job or a relationship I do it 100. I think it's rare for people to do that and love when I meet people who are the same. I love to make people laugh. It's soul food for me. If I can make someone smile I'm happy. I constantly have family/friends laughing. My work environment is a riot and we are constantly in tears. I've been through a lot in my life. Most would be bitter but I've learned to embrace the trials and learn from them. I am very thankful not regretful. My paths in life have made me a strong person and who I am now. I wouldn't go back and change a thing. I'm on here in hopes to meet someone who I can start a relationship with. Take things slow and find common ground. I am looking for long-term, you probably should be too. Im ready to have that special person in my life again. I have old fashion values and am looking for the same. I love to make my man feel special and appreciated. I have a lot to offer granted the right person of course. If I'm dating you, seeing you, whatever you want to call it, then there is only you. You will not have to question that ever. I'm a loyal person and am looking for the same. Which seems to be hard to find. I'm not a "hook up" if I start to feel as if I am, I will walk. I do not play with others emotions. If your looking for that girl that you never have to guess with, I'm her. I appreciate a man who can be honest with feelings and intentions. Who doesn't avoid questions and will answer them truthfully. I don't play games nor appreciate games to be played. If your about games, lies and drama please don't contact me. I can call BS very quickly...Its a gift of mine. And again, ill walk if i feel games are being played. I've learned very well in my previous marriage. I have no patience for it again. I'm not here to waste your time so please don't waste mine :)I do have a daughter. She is my princess. We are a package deal. Hopefully you like kids. Otherwise this will probably not work. I am a mom first and that will never change. Don't worry, I know how to make time for you if you are the right person. You probably will not meet my daughter unless the situation turns into something serious. I'm looking out for her best interest and emotional well-being. Anyway, lets see what happens! Happy fishing! Anything as long as we are comfortable and can get to know one another

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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