• Mulvane
• Kansas
• United States

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Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

I'm a somewhat recently separated father of four who never planned on hitting the dating scene at the age of 40, so I plan to start slowly (friends, casual dating, etc). That being said, I'm also open to whatever comes along. Basically, I'm trying to keep my mind open but my expectations grounded. By the way, I'm following the little meetville guidlines for this section, so if it's lame, or boring, or scripted...or if it in any way sucks...try to overlook it and withhold judgement. I'm career-oriented and love what I do, but nothing is more important than my family. My days start and end with the kids...getting them off to school in the mornings, and cooking dinner and helping with homework at night. I do take a lot of satisfaction in the fact that the kids are well fed with home-cooked meals and a lot of freshly baked bread (most of the time!). I also enjoy reading (mostly non-fiction, particularly history) and watching movies with the kids. I love the outdoors and used to enjoy hiking, camping, and canoeing, but haven't done much of any of these in a while. Hopefully I would find someone who might like to do some of these things together. Museums are cool, but I also like going out for dinner and drinks, and love to play pool and darts. And golf. I like golf, without being obsessed with it.Music? It would be easier to say what I don't like: modern country. I pretty much like everything else.What makes me unique? Maybe the fact that I'm nowhere near as boring as this description makes me sound. I'm actually a lot of fun once you get to know me...I'm really nice, and maybe not the first person you'd notice in a group, but I'm surprisingly fun, too. I think my ideal first date would be a drink and a game of pool. Or maybe a Walleye or Mudhens game. A coffee or lunch date would probably be alright, but sometimes I picture that being almost like an interview (which maybe it is, in a way). Honestly though, it's whatever you'd like. I'm really looking forward to meeting someone cool, and ultimately the venue will be far less important than the person I'm sharing it with (I hope!).

• Mulvane
• Kansas
• United States

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Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

Interests: live music, live sports, biking, fishing, boating, skiing, motorcycles (although I dont have ***yet), old cars, building furniture, kissing, snuggling....and too many more to list....Hi! Thanks for taking a look at my profile, aka shameless self-promotion. These things are not the easiest things to write. So, if I don't give you exactly what you're looking for, please message me anyway. That doesnt sound too desperate, right? :-)First off, I'm looking for a woman that is secure in who she is, but who likes to give and receive a lot of attention & affection. I'd like to find a woman with whom I can take my armor off & be, well, vulnerable - there, I said it. And I mean that in a trusting sort-of way, not a needy/fragile "cry on your shoulder constantly" kind of way. I enjoy being a guy's guy, but I also enjoy snuggling up at the end of the day, and I want you feel as comfortable putting your arms around me for a random hug and kiss as I want to with you...k? :-)About me: I love to have fun! 'm a goofball. In a good way. I love to kid around, and joke. But not at anyone's expense. I'm endearingly facetious. My kids think I am crazy, and sometimes they're probably right. And I do tend to push boundaries sometimes. For example, meetville says that sexual language of any kind in this profile will cause my account to be deleted. So I'm wondering if I say something sexually sexual, like the word sex, in a blatantly sexual and kind of sexy way, if that will raise meetville's collective eyebrows. Sex sex sex sex sex.So I suppose if you're reading this, I'm still safe. And if you're convinced by my commentary above that I've got nothing but sex on the brain, don't worry. I only think about it momentarily every 5 minutes. That means that for the other 4 minutes and 58 seconds I'm thinking about all sorts of other things. So you can relax. :-)I do have 2 kids. Both boys. They are my world. I love them dearly. They dont live with me full-time, but they will come first until they're old enough to fly out of the nest. But that doesn't mean that I don't want to find & meet you, and enjoy time with you. Just being straight up. :-)I am separated, not yet divorced. Based upon many conversations with women, that seems to throw up a red flag. So, for purposes of clarification, here's what separation is on my watch. My ex and I worked on our marriage for 3+ Rather than force those issues we decided to turn our attention to making sure that the kids were loved and supported by both of us individually. Therefore, my marital split was and is amicable, so there's no drama there. I'm pledged to keeping it that way, for my kids' sake and my own. It also means that the marriage is over. I am happily separated, and I'm moving forward. I like keeping busy most of the time. I work full time as a distributor rep in the corporate world, and I run a custom remodeling/trim/cabinetry business on the side. I also flip houses when the opportunity presents itself. Of course, this means that if you dont want to go out with me, I'm still available to remodel your kitchen, or put up that crown molding that you've been thinking about for awhile. So, I work hard, and play hard. And I would like to find someone to hang out with, and ultimately be by my side as I do. I have been playing music (drums & percussiom) for 27 years, and that is my true passion. So, if you want someone to go out for live music of almost any genre, I'm most definitely your guy. But, the difference between a musician and a large pizza is that a large pizza can actually feed a family of four, so I opted out of the starving artist thing a LONG time ago. I also enjoy woodworking, furniture refinishing & restoration - yes I will go antiquing with you - biking, skiing (when I get the chance), hiking, fishing, and almost anything to do with the water. I'm always willing to try new stuff. I also take a very active role in coaching my boys, both in sports and in life.Anything else you'd like to know, just ask! Don't be shy. It's only an online message. I'm mostly harmless anyway. Besides, I already know that 4 out of 5 dentists would recommend me to their patients who chew gum, and I'm sure that the fifth dentist would cave with just a little extra pressure.OK - back to serious. If you've actually gotten through this profile without at least smiling, then I'm probably not a match. But if you like to have fun, work hard & play hard - and relax - then send me a message. You'll be glad you did. Hmmm...I have Jeeves pick you up in my ***Duesenberg J limousine. he brings you to the private airstrip, where the G5 engines are already warming up. After the show is over, a team of bodyguards escorts you as you go on a shopping spree at the Venetian with my day's dividends, while I look on. Then, when you're tuckered out, we get back on the jet and fly back east.Or we could hit a cool bar or restaurant, find a quiet table & enjoy getting to know each other...

• Mulvane
• Kansas
• United States

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Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

I volunteer my free time teaching adults how to read. I am here on meetville because I am not into the bar scene. I do however like to frequent ethnic restaurants and occasionally like to cook gourmet food. I have dark hair and brown eyes and I wear my hair short and I believe in the concept of there being chemistry between two people. For a first date we should meet somewhere in public. I think the first date should be brief, a cup of coffee or a glass of wine. If the the chemistry is there, then we will make time for a second date.