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Socorro
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
Not sure where to begin. I guess I can start with I had a ten year marriage. Been divorced now for about 3 yrs. Have had a few relationships in that time. One stands out the most for me because it was off and on for awhile. So you could say Im a forgiving person. There comes a time when you realize you are nolonger yourself. I would like to be with someone who can describe me to someone who has known me my whole life. If your in love with me. You should know who I am with you or away from you and you should trust me. If there is no trust there is no relationship. I have a very bad habit of meeting men that need some sort of fixing. Financially or need a place to live. Or they are very insecure with themselves. I enjoy outdoor activities when the man im with walks with me with pride. Not punish you for being beautiful. Im very protective of my children. I have a 21yr old son and 14 and 7 yr old daughters. I have a full time job that I love. I plan on owning my own home this coming March :) Dinner and alot of talking. Will want a great connection . If not no second date.Just an added note IM NOT ON meetville LOOKING TO GET LAID. I WANT A RELATIONSHIP. GEEEZZZ DUDES. DO I LOOK LIKE I NEED TO BE ON HERE JUST FOR SEX.. NO! OCT 12TH ***
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Elena
Online
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Does this EVER get ANY easier? I am a Mom .... raising 2 daughters that take up a lot of my time.. I work, and travel from time to time for my job. In the past, dating was not very easy for me, however when I do have free time... I like to have plans to spend with that SPECIAL "ONE".I want to be VERY upfront and say that if you are on this site, to "prowl" and "score" I am NOT INTERESTED. IF you are NOT looking for an eventual SERIOUS LTR. Please do not waste either of our time. I HONESTLY want to spend the free time I have with someone who is looking towards the future. If you are still in LOVE with your ex... Married.... Newly Separated..... or just a Gigilo...I am not interested. I am in my 40's and KNOW what clicks for me and what does not. I prefer men that are over 5 foot 9, , call it "shallow";something" I won't compromise on. I do not like to be taller than the MAN I am with. Hey, honesty.....is FOREMOST!Some things that I have to be HONEST and put out there : I do not want to come across as negative.. but can we just be real and get to what we REALLY like and want, and don't?1: If you are not really interested in a committed future, however YOU have that in your profile, the only thing that says about you is that from the START you are DISHONEST..and that does not work for me.. A "relationship" can not begin when based on dishonesty.2: IF YOU SAY you are a NON SMOKER... I sure hope that you ARE... and BELIEVE me I will know and SMOKING is a DEAL BREAKER for me. I am a VERY honest person and that is a quality I take seriously. I will ALWAYS be honest....3: I am VERY attracted to a man with a great smile..it is the FIRST thing that I notice.... a SMILE says soo much about a person's inner soul.. IF you are not smiling in ANY of your photos, chances are you are not very happy and I like to surround myself with Happy People. So if I do not respond to your message if your pix looks like a nasty mug shot with a DEAD BLOODY animal or you are pointing a 12 gauge at me ... hmmm I will not be responding. I don't mean to sound harsh, but a SMILE is KEY! 4: I can RESPECT the profiles w/out photos because of your job etc.. HOWEVER... YOU MUST *** PHOTO or I WILL NOT RESPOND... If you think about it .... it is PRETTY CREEPY "messaging" a Person with NO FACE... and I WON't make an exception.... 5: Also , please spell check your profile and your messages..... or have someone do it for you....6: I am very interested in finding out a little bit about you .... BEFORE ANY numbers are exchanged..I DO NOT GIVE OUT MY NUMBER ... My daughters also "play on" or use my phone because I do not believe that a 10 year old "needs" a cell phone. I do not just hand out my number to have texts and photos sent to my phone.. call me OL' fashioned... HOWEVER, I feel that we have lost the intrique of the "courting or dating" stage.. I have an IM and there is a "chat" feature on this... and AT FIRST that is how I would like to communicate. ..they gave us the tools... let's USE them.... and take it from there... PLEASE DO NOT ask me to send you "THOSE PIX".... you don't even KNOW me..... ALL of these things WILL follow ... natural progression .. IF it is "right"...VERY VERY IMPORTANTI AM COMPLETELY SET ON THE "WANTS" that I have indicated... the WHAT I AM INTERESTED IN... WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR.... I am not on this site to collect profiles and spend hours reading through messages from men that do NOT match my criteria AT ALL... I know what kind of man SPARKS my interest.... and what kind INTERESTS me to find out more about. NOT to come across as "Shallow" but, if I say 5' 9" and you are 4' 11" I probably won't respond... I appreciate the compliments .. I honestly do.... But PLEASE can we be HONEST... we ALL know as grown adults WHAT makes us "tick" and what doesn't... that is just an example.... it goes for ALL my other preferences as well. THAT is why they ASk..... :)Now Guys, as many of the other "ladies" on this site may appreciate or LIKE a photo of you HALF NAKED "PUMPING IRON" at the GYM in the mirror or taking pix of yourself in a bathroom with a urinal in the background ...or ALL of your pix are only of your half naked body.....there are many , INCLUDING ME that think that is a BIT CREEPY... leave something to our imagination...AS FOR ME....I am fun , and witty, and like to do just about anything...at least once. I enjoy time with friends and I always make an effort to make people smile.. I am Passionate, and Fun and Honest. I like to put on my heels and go out to dinner or put my hair in a baseball cap and go to a Hockey game or other sporting event. I am attracted to TALLER Men (over 5 foot 9) because I have a CLOSET of shoes that I love to wear when I am not playing Mom's Taxi or in my cleats on the softball field.. I like to look my best when going out with My "man".. That may sound "shallow" but it is a "chemistry thing with me... If I tower over you when I have my jeans and heels on, I just can't feel the "chemistry" everyone has their "thing".I get messaged a LOT "WHY ARE YOU SINGLE"? Well.... I'm single simply because I have raised my girls alone, and they are and have been my focus.. I am not one of these women that puts their children second just to go on dates.. I honestly in 5 years have only been on 6 dates from this site. I love to smile and laugh, cook and garden. I like to spend time with friends and go out every so often.. I coach girls softball, and try to be as active in the kids school activities as my work schedule allows. I will ALWAYS give 110%......... ALWAYS... I think that meeting in a PUBLIC place is #1 MOST IMPORTANT...:) Maybe for a Drink somewhere to see if there is that "spark" then if we choose move onto to app's or dinner, or movie.. Then if there is that "CHEMISTRY" let the adventure begin! ohhh and IF your profile says NON SMOKER! PLEASEEEEEE make sure YOU are a TRUE NON SMOKER... because as GREAT as you are.. I can NOT/ will NOT date a SMOKER.. So PLEASE DON't LIE! that is an *** ender..
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Rosanna
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
PIC'S PLEASE :) and goin to say this rite out if you dont want to meet or just lookin to get laid and if your not over your ex.dont even contact me!!! I Am serious -don't waste my time or yours. If you are read on ... I'm a strong believer you have to have attraction between two people!!for me im a easy outgoin straight up honset .foward working girl (I'm self emp). I love the outdoors..and i go to the gym ***times a week I am very. active and looking for the same I love the summer..beaches..parks.movies..love to travel when i can.(e.t.c.) I Like to go out to dinners- Which me and my 15-year-old daughter do quite a bit of.... I'm very family orientedI'm not looking to just get laid if I wanted that I can go to the bar and I'm sure I can get that for a night ..so if you are just lookin for a friend with benefist I'm not the girl. Don't even contact me.. I'm lookin for a lot more! I'm not into the bar scene anymore dont drink am into sobertiy -I dony play head games and dont want headgames played with me and all that drama bullcrap... im just looking for that special goodlookin guy... To me there has to be Attraction and Chemistry that is a must!!!! ya have to have that between 2 people I belevie less it won't work expecially attraction and then all the other things that come along with that honesty. Carnin lovin and that just enjoys life with each other...lifes to short to be mean and misarble.. I like to take things slow and. then see were it goes...lifes not a rush . to me anyways its not....so if you. think u like to chat here iam...and pleazzz dont ask me to send ur dirty pics and all that bullshit....cause im not into that..so here iam if ya like to get to know one another.and yes I have a 15 .yr.old daughter that is my world .shes My littleside kick ;-)AND PLEASE A PICTURE OF URSELFYOU SEEN MY PICTURE ..FAIR IS ONLY FAIR!!!!! :).....And just for u guys that think iam on line and get really defensive if I don't respond right back. To me that's not a very good impression of yourself.. I am not probley not online. If i dont respond back i just never log out you can leave me a message.. I.do check them when I have the time and I will get back with ya .as soon as i can ...So if you Think ya like to chat Here I am:) dinner..movie/..get to know one another start out as friends hang out..don't drink anymore so no bars.I figure ya can havd fun without boozein it... then I believe you should not drink on the first date anyways .:)