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Fay
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I have no idea why I'm back here.lol. I'm not even sure what I'm looking for. I guess I'm looking for somebody who has the characters of love. Non-argumentative...working together as one, but a team looking for the same goal. I am NOT perfect having many flaws, but I'm usually too honest & very real. I like intelligent conversation, have a little bit of a flirtatious nature, love to laugh, sarcasm & goofiness. (it keeps you young!) I tend to be quick witted, a dreamer of sorts. Love to challenge myself & grow. Tend to "study" people, things & see the way they interact. Love especially exploring nature & try my hand at strange things & I like the challenge of just seeing if things will work...or even not.lol. Same with people. If they yeild no fruit or are bad apples...not for me.You could say I'm an explorer of sorts to see what makes things tick. Unfortunately, this keeps me focused on alot of things at once which tends to make me appear somewhat unfocused....just keep swimming, just keep swimming.lol. The best way to see how my brain operates is to probably read the book of Ecclesiastes, but ultimately knowing theres a much higher purpose for life under the sun. The fun (& not so fun) part is striving to figure it out! :P. I'm 5.4", ***lbs & wear size 12. I have Mommy war wounds &lol. If you can accept that (while me working on losing ***lbs, thats cool). Just dont pretend you like me & then make derogatory comments please. Pessimists, casual encounters, smokers or athiests need not apply. I love diversity, but tend to do better dating within my own culture & race. I'm not trying to be some bad a$$ Princess.lol. In fact, I am a big nurturer...whom has learned many, many lessons. Please know theres a difference between discernment & rejection. Discernment is the action of judging ones character, rejection is the perception one sees from that discernment. I'm probably not a good option for you if you're into society labels & are ego driven. Not trying to be a **** Seeing "red flags" is reason enough to know in your heart, you will probably not be compatible w/that person. Was in over a 20 yr marriage, 3 children by the same man whom I remain close friends with. Cant stand angry people who end things hateful or with revenge-not for me, sorry. Just looking for a sweet, educated, handsime fella (not too much into facial hair, sry) & love a man with a beautiful white smile, smells good (mmmm.lol), who can laugh, hold a conversation, is articulate (mostly date professional men) & is preferrably local (w/in an hrs drive). I'll also probably want to become friends first. Please love God & be Christian! When you can do that, you love yourself & then loving others comes naturally. :DIf you are attractive (physical chemistry starts it.lol), want balance in your life, love being creative, non-judgemental, can "fight fair", be spontaneous, humorous, loves & respects animals & nature, family/kids, cooking, long, romantic conversations that include goofiness, sarcasm, mature debate & you can walk away from one another learning something,, then you have what it takes for greatness & a great permanent relationship! :)Please be intelligent, very much a gentleman & respectful. Be able to sometimes be so imature & downright silly! If you have a past history of domestic disputes or abuse, I wont even date you. Sorry.If I do not respond, please do NOT take it personally. I'm not out to hurt anyone here. It just means I dont think we'd be a good match from comparing our profiles.Thanks ya'all for looking! Probably depends on how long two people are in contact. Should be mutually agreed, but somewhere fascinating.
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Christi
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
A passion for life, vitality, sensuality, compassion, commitment, a challenge, laughter, beauty, wisdom, happiness…warmth, sincerity, loyalty, communication, affection, honesty, spontaneity, diversity, generosity, understanding and acceptance… energy, curiosity, playfulness, romance, simplicity and complexity, adventure…I love to laugh and appreciate a sharp sense of humor. I am very driven and that is probably an understatement. I am also a risk taker and appreciate that quality in the man I am seeking. Please be confident in who you are as a person and the direction your life is going. We have all been around the block a time or two and I appreciate the experience you bring to the table. Looking for a man that will bring me coffee in bed and forgive me for all of the late nights I work. Connect somewhere trendy... The newest hot spot in town. Enjoy a glass of wine, great conversation and of course the company would be divine! Keeping it simple and open for the first meeting. A second date would be longer... Perhaps dinner out or attending an event where we could extend the conversation and time together.
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Tina
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
I'm a passionate woman who is an avid reader, very inquisitive, spontaneous, ambitious, educated and intelligent. I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not and am comfortable with who I am.My personality is a bit sarcastic/ playful, I am outgoing and I am always up for an adventure! I'm also outspoken and independent but fiercely loyal and giving to those closest to me.I have a wonderfully complicated family who I love dearly and are very important to me. The one I'm looking for is a genuinely good person who enjoys being spontaneous, likes adventures (skydiving is on my bucket list) and is not afraid to take a chance. You're emotionally ready (meaning, you're over the past, learned from it and moved on) to date and see where it leads.. You're educated, and a working professional, who keeps up to date on current events and enjoys a good book, the arts, music and learning. You're witty and not afraid to tell me when I'm wrong or when my outfit isn't flattering. Enjoys a playful debate over differences of opinion and lighthearted conversation regarding the days events. You speak your mind and share your thoughts openly. You're open-minded yet passionate in your beliefs.You enjoy a movie and dinner at home as much as going out... thunder storms, walks on the beach, weekend get-a-ways and dogs. You prefer jeans and flip flops but have a suit and tie for when the occasion arises. (a lot to list!) then come home to tell the grandkids about our adventures. Intimacy and communication are crucial! You're also looking for someone who "gets" you... Who you don't have to pretend with. Where silence is not uncomfortable.Physical attraction is common... A mental connection is rare. Once you've had the latter the former will never be enough.I don't know the package "you" will come in so I'm looking for a deeper connection beyond what's just on the outside. Looks fade... personality, chemistry and love last a lifetime. First date would be coffee or somewhere quiet so we could talk and get to know each other... Arriving in separate cars just in case:-)