• Paola
• Kansas
• United States

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Man. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

Looking for: woman. In age: 41-51

I like sports and music and hanging out with friends and my two sons! I have been driving a fuel truck for the past 12 years and really like my job and wish to stay there until I retire! I work at night! I'm six foot 4 and ***lbs! My favorite music is metal, hard rock, and blues music! Would like to go somewhere we are both comfortable with and just hang out for a little while and get to know her a little with no pressure at all and just have a fun time! I am pretty easy going and like meeting new people!

• Paola
• Kansas
• United States

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Man. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: woman. In age: 38-48

If you could choose between 2 relationships: the first one guarantees a long life and with that comes security. Security in every sense including no divorce. Although, it is tried and true, long and steady you and your spouse will only have very little excitement day in and day out. Long life, finacial security and never worrying about divorce; theyll always be there. You come home to 'hi Hon, how was your day?' On occasion you travel and eat at a nice restaurant. The second life is life in the fast lane and full of adventure. You and the love of your life are mostly doing something new and exciting. You are going out often and having fun with each-other and friends. The two of you are hopelessly in love and count the seconds you are apart. When you come home more times than not there is something special planned for you. He treats you like you are the only girl in the world. But there is one catch; this relationship only lasts 5 years.....and ends in tragedy.I am ready to start living life after spending my years serving as a pay check and living out the first scenario. Life is too short to go on unhappy as selfish as that sounds. Marriage should be about sharing lives together not merely co-existing. Relationships take work from both; don't take each-other for granted. It will fail. After working to save something neither of us wanted, we decided it was time. I'm looking for another shot at it eventually, but I now know what I want and what I'm looking for. Better to have a short meaningful love than a long relationship that serves more as a security blanket, which feels like a long slow death.I am witty, quick on my feet and like to laugh! I am handy as I finished my basement to include the electrical and plumbing. I also laid the bamboo flooring on the main level. However, I'd just assume live on a postage stamp and use my money for going places and doing things as these make for better memories. I will stop and help someone with a flat tire and you can expect me to be in the middle of something should it go sideways in my presence. I am also not shy about pointing out all of your great features and I like someone who can be confident about those features and not let the imperfections get them down; we all have them and it is a lie to believe otherwise. Having said that, I also believe in taking care of yourself including the corns on the feet and not bitting on your nails. I am attracted to women with attractive hands, feet and hips. These three elements are where women are most eloquent. I also like to take a woman by the small of her back.I can be trained to a degree and am always up for experiencing new things and culture. I don't claim or pretend I have done it all. So show me something you like to do and I am game!Surprisingly enough I do like to shop for clothes. I think it is fun to do with someone you find to be hot. Sometimes I like to just go out and people watch while nursing some rum or vodka. I like to go to the club and get out on the floor. I drink when I go out, but not to the point of embarrasment. I am in excellent shape and enjoy weight training and sprinting for my workouts. I like hip hop (even though the artists are usually a bunch of mopes), rock such as SKILLET and TFK. I'll even listen to SOME country and 80's, 90's to current. I am a concert goer and don't believe in standing around at one. I really enjoy comedy and sci-fi. I also like COD. I enjoy the outdoors and the sun! I have a career but plan on my business helping me to transition out of it. I like the night life. I like a female who takes care of her physique, is a little bold about being hot and wears heals from time to time. I am fashionable wether its going out for the night or to Walmart. I am physical in the sense I like to embrace and touch outside of the bedroom. This is important because you never know what life will throw at you in the next minute. For the moment I am interested in getting to know you by chatting. Then if things go well....you'll need a paint brush. If you *** I don't respond it is because I am uninterested and I get too many messages to address all of them, so my apologies. Also, I have kids but don't plan on meeting them until you and I are established. Oh, and if you are bad with money don't bother. I'm NOT doing that again. Or first date would likely be drinks somewhere with a good bar. We will chat and laugh and see about maybe going out and make some noise. We won't go so far as to get arrested, but it will be close! XD .....or coffee....but if we go a second time be ready to pick up a brush as we paint the town red! XD

• Paola
• Kansas
• United States

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Man. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: woman. In age: 39-49

I enjoy about everything thats fun, I love to see people smile. Enjoy the outdoors, traveling or just watching a movie home. My children are older now so I can dedicate some time to myself. I'm a very interesting man I love to learn all the time and a listener, I've lived in 3 countries so im very well cultured. I do travel all over the united states as part of my job. I enjoy romantic outings and know how to treat a lady, my preference in music is country but i enjoy all of it. Loyal and trustworthy. Looking for a partner I can't wait to see everyday. I dislike drama and liars I don't judge. I don't need an occasion to by you flowers. Not looking for perfect no one is. I'm very confident and good hearted. When I close my eyes at night its always with a good conscience. Lunch or a drink casual