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Francine, 44
United States, California, Oxnard

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Hello,Here it goes trying to intrigue you and tell you a bit about myself.I am a single mom of a 17 year old son, he is a great young man, but he will be headed to college out West in about a year and half. Liking kids is must, But I can't have anymore. Looking to enjoy this new chapter that is approaching soon and share it with a special someone.I do have tattoos, non on my breast, butt and no tr*mp stamp. Love the aspect of body art and the stories they tell, so if your not a fan sorry I'm probably not the one for you, So please don't waste my time if you don't care for them. I have had the same career for the last 20 years, looking forwards to finishing up college classes and a move from restaurants to the medical field next year. I enjoy most all music not a fan of hard core rap. I have been single now for a few years and I am looking to date and hopeful to develop a long term relationship, Building a great foundation of friendship that ends with us sitting with drinks talking about the years together. Communication is a must! Not looking for perfect just perfect for me. I am looking for a confident, yet knows how to have fun and laugh man. We all have a past hopefully you have made peace with it, learned from it and are ready for the future. I'm a open book feel free to ask away. I am a woman who can honestly say I am comfortable in where I am at, and where I have been in life. I know what I am looking for and what I want in a relationship, and I am willing to speak those wants and needs. I am working on getting back into great shape aren't we all:) eating healthy and being active.Life is too short not to smile and be happy.. I enjoy (LOVE) cooking/baking for friends and family, spending time in great conversations, laughing till it hurts, being outside, reading, learning people's story, volunteering, hugs, passionate soft kisses, cuddling and more.If you made it this far and think or feel I might be what your interested in send me a hello.Best of luck in our search. Meet for coffee or a drink talk, get to know each other and see if there is chemistry. I'm sure we can talk about this.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B French Spanish Vietnamese Drama Horror Motorcycle Racing
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