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Leticia, 45
United States, California, Oxnard

Offline, last seen Fri, 12 Sep 2025 06:09:56

About Me

I don't do "relationships" just to avoid being alone. I have fabulous friends, family & casual dates who fill that void. I want a true connection & chemistry - physically, mentally, emotionally, intellectually. I don't fall easily, but I'm not afraid to fall. I'm cautious when there are red flags & run when there are "dealbreakers". When the time is right... When the person is right.... I want the fairytale. Do I think meetville will be the beginning of the fairytale? Nah, I prefer a happenstance, in-person first experience, but what the hey? I'm a people person!Somewhat new to the area, I'm interested in meeting men who are intelligent, sexy, spontaneous, honest, non-judgmental and kind. Also, a sense of humor is a must. Life is too short to be so serious all the time. Don't you think?I am not nearly as concerned with the color of your skin as I am with the content of your character. Extremes don't attract me... Extreme country boys, extreme gangster types, extreme business only men...not really my style. I'm more a "middle-of-the-road" type girl. Well-rounded is much more attractive to me. I love making new friends and testing the waters to see if there is a connection. I do believe a connection is necessary for things to move further. However, new friends are always fun. My friends, guys and girls, come from all walks of life--all ages, cultures, races, lifestyles. In my opinion, those things don't determine the person. Hate in any form won't be a part of my life. I am content with me; I don't find my happiness in men. I will happily give great effort when there is potential, but I won't be there by myself...not for long anyway. I'm not rushing toward a relationship; I'm just willing to be open to the possibilities.... I enjoy first dates that allow good talk time...over drinks or dinner. Not too loud, not too quiet...just relaxed conversation. I'm a pretty simple girl.Going on a "date" appears to be a lost art. While I like nice things, I especially like things that feel comfortable, not forced. It's NOT about money; it's all about effort.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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