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Bernadine, 42
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

Okay guys, let's change a few things on here! I'm not here for a booty call, and If you are, you can hit the back button now. I am an independent woman with a job, take care of my own kids, and pay my own bills, so I don't need a man to take care of me, nor do I feel like I have to have a man to be complete, although the rite one can make it so much sweeter! With that said, I just like to have fun period, doesn't really matter doing what. I like going out at least once per weekend. I love dancing and just getting out of the house. I like going out to eat, but I also love to cook, and I'm actually pretty good at it. I still believe there has got to be men out there that believes that one woman is enough and can be faithful, although I have not found that yet. I know it sounds crazy but, if I can't have a one-woman man, then I'd rather be by myself. I don't ask anything from anybody that I can't give myself in return. I believe that you have to give respect in order to receive respect, and most of all I believe in treating people like I want to be treated.Not sure what I'm looking for on here, but hell if I can meet a few new friends that's got to be a good thing! I do tend to like my men a little younger than I am though. I would love to just have a date that flowed naturally. We could go just about anywhere as long as it was good conversation and respect involved. Romance is always a good thing though. It would be nice for a man to show that he was really looking forward to the date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Jazz
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