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Virgie, 45
United States, California, Oxnard

Offline, last seen Sat, 07 Mar 2026 05:41:15

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*UPDATE* Guys.. please keep in mind that a Lady likes to know your thinking of her it takes what 3 seconds to send a hello.. working crazy hours, get with you soon.. txt.. dont be afraid to loose those precious 3 seconds.. cuz if I agree to go out with you.. and we decide we would like to go out again, then I dont hear anything from you for a week or more.. I'm keepin my line in the water cuz you were just nibbling in the first place If you want me to take you seriously then let me know it.. nibbles are everywhere I want to be caught by a man who is REALLY ready for a relationship and ready and willing to put forth a little effort to help make it happen. I will do my part.. but Im not interested in being a convenient hang out when your bored or horny... just sayin..Hello there,Im a fun loving, energetic and friendly type woman.. I dont sweat the little stuff, because I have learned( mostly the hard way) that in the grand scheme of things.. its ALL little stuff. I DEFINITELY know what I want in a relationship, HOW you ask? well because I have spent roughly the last 25 years (16.5 of them married and unhappy) figuring out exactly what i DON'T want in a relationship. I feel I deserve to be loved and appreciated by a Man to whom I give my self fully. I will put 150% into everything I do.. relationships included. because 100% just isn't enough. the grass is NOT greener on the other side of the fence.. it is greener where you water it and fertilize it (however I do not want to be fertilized hehehehe) I used to wear my heart on my sleeve but I found that people like to steal it then do very bad things with it, then when I find it I have all kinds of work to do to put it back together. so I am very careful about who I let have it anymore. and who ever gets it must be alright with sharing it with my kids ***and ***and my grand kids (3 and 1)mmm Music.. I LOVE IT.. nearly all of it.. I like all Genre's.. everything from rob zombie to Yanni, opera to honky tonk twangin music out by a bonfire. I cant play sports much any more but I love to cheer on those I care about.. I'm an AWESOME cheerleader!I Love to camp and fish and travel, little weekend trips are AWESOME. I LOVE the Zoo and safari's and photography is both my hobby and my passion.I want to find someone I can share EVERYTHING with.. I have been in the healthcare/medical profession for 15 years so I completely understand its stresses and demands. and while I understand that somethings are just better left at work, I want to be able to share the days events and stresses or the laughs. Holding work inside leads to burnout. trust me, I know.. so share with me and I'll share with you.One day I hope to fall in love.. I cant say again because I dont think I have ever REALLY been in LOVE at least not the way I have always WANTED it to be. I want to find my best friend, my companion, partner and lover, I want to find that ONE I can picture growing old with, imagine being that old couple holding hands as they shuffle down the sidewalk on the daily walk they have shared for 30 years. I know it sounds like i AM asking for alot.. but its no more than I will give back. who knows maybe you will be my last first date. with all that being said. I hope to hear back from you. if not I wish you the very best in your search. Have a wonderful day. Kimps I do have other pictures but for some reason I cant upload them to meetville from my computer so there will need to be an alternate form of communication for that..***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\RIP Grandpa C Grandma C Grandma R aunt B.. I love you i guess that all depends on your definition of DATE.. I have met a few men ( not just here, even out in public who arent interested in paying for dinner or anything else unless they are pretty sure they are getting laid later. thats NOT a date guys.. thats a "hook up or a one night stand" and Im not interested in either. I can get that ANYWHERE. Im looking for QUALITY. I dont need a fancy dinner or anything unless its something we agree on. if this is a mutual thing then we should meet in the middle somewhere.. for coffee.. or a drink or a picnic or a walk in a park or by a lake heck I would even like going fishin. cant beat gettin a little dirty and laughin at yourself the first time u meet someone.. what a way to break the ice let me know what you think. !

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rock American Caribbean Spanish Crime Thriller Boxing
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