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Polly, 43
United States, California, Oxnard

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About Me

I am very happy, optimistic, honest, giving, independent and outgoing person. Family is a huge part of my life. I have two daughters (who are grown), a great family and an amazing group of friends. I'm a very laid back and down to earth person who loves to laugh and enjoy life. I try to find the good in everyone, to see the positive side to all things in life and I try to appreciate the little things in life we sometimes over look. I am not into drama. I enjoy going to the movies, concerts (favorite type of music is country), comedy clubs, catching a live sporting events especially the Texans, running, playing tennis and spending the evening with friends whether its a night out on the town or hanging at home cooking together. Or just enjoy sitting on the back porch with an ice cold beer or around a bon fire catching up. I love to travel, taking weekend road trips or quick get a ways, and a lot of the summer is spent at the lake jet skiing and relaxing.I always try to be myself and I want others to be themselves with me. Honesty, integrity and faithfulness are very important qualities to me. I am looking for that one special person who is my best friend, someone I can put my trust in, that I can spend hours talking to, someone who is secure with himself, who is family-oriented, mature, enjoys traveling. Definitely has a romantic side, has a great sense of humor, can easily make me laugh, can be spontaneous and knows how to have fun and make the most out of life. I think its attractive when a guy can work on things or fix things around the house.I want to meet someone who isn't looking to play games or interested in serial dating.My ideal relationship would be comfortable and easy. We can be ourselves around each other and share lots of laughs. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we can communicate this often. Fights are rare and when we do fight, we don't stop talking until we've reached an understanding. I truly believe you have to build a strong foundation to have a lasting long-term relationship. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile! If you want to find out more I look forward to hearing from you. If not, I wish you luck in your search...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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