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Alta, 39
United States, California, Salinas

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About Me

Let me begin by getting this nasty little bit out of the way.......First, if you cannot include a few current pictures of yourself in your profile, then sending a message to me is futile as it will not receive a response. Secondly, please take note of the type of gentleman I am "seeking". I would greatly appreciate your time in doing so. (For example, ***year difference in age? No, thank you kindly)Third, if you are only looking for a "sexual encounter", whether it be via technology or in person, you are barking up the wrong tree. Relatively laid back small town girl. Mom of two adorable school-aged children......and two small poodles. Hate drama and dissonance. Absolutely will not tolerate lies, deception, or immaturity. Definitely a non-confrontational person; however, if a situation presents itself, I will handle it in a firm, calm, unquestionable manner. This is especially true when it comes to defending loved ones. I am open-minded and non-judgmental. In my mind, to each his own. It's what makes each individual unique. Family is extremely important to me. For that reason, (and for the awesome award-winning school system) I have zero intention of moving/living outside of my little town.Love good old fashioned fun and hanging out with family and friends, especially when they are playing live music. Riding four-wheelers, backyard sports, cookouts and just good times. The stuff of which memories are made. I do enjoy working with my hands.....gardening, crochet, crafts, etc. I am also quite handy at fixing things.....and would love to have a gentleman with handiness that compliments my own.Logical thinker. Full of heart and compassion. Very honest and open. Communicate openly and freely with trusted individuals, but especially my mate (and I do want the same open, free-flowing communication from my mate). Loving. Very passionate. Looking for a man with the same qualities who can be my very best friend, yet really light my fire.Although I am far from being a shallow person, let's face it.....physical attraction is still a factor. I am naturally drawn to gentlemen with dark hair and a toned physique (not necessarily muscular, although that is indeed very nice). I definitely prefer clean shaven (absolutely no mustaches), well-groomed gentlemen who are aware of their appearance. No....I don't like vanity; however, looking presentable regardless of the days activities is certainly preferable. Men with a good sense of style and perhaps a tasteful amount of "bling" will also immediately catch my eye. I am a tall girl, so I definitely prefer a tall man (6ft+ is great!). Eyes in which I can both lose and find myself.......lips that only speak truth from the soul........and arms that tell me 'i'm home'. The first date is a time when you are just getting to know one another. Communication is certainly necessary.....therefore, it seems that dinner, movies, or concerts would not be the best choices due to noise and the fact that mom said "don't talk with food in your mouth". Perhaps coffee (or other drink) in a relatively quiet pub or, better yet, a park would be better? I think so :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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