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Casandra, 40
United States, California, Salinas

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HI. So what can i say about me.I am a 39 yr old single female:) I am honest, caring, loyal ..funny..and much more . I am open minded and willing to try most anything once. I love to laugh , and have a good time . I have an awesome sense of humor and am not afraid to be who i truly am . One can be a goofy girl and still be able to have the romantic serious side as well. I love to hang out with my friends and experience new things . I am a free spirit and like to see where the wind takes me. I want to always look at life with non judging eyes and an open heart. I love to laugh and live every day to the fullest . Life is too short for unnecessary drama. I am very family oriented..My family means the world to me. I am sick of bars and mind games. But hell who isnt. . I Do go out a lot on weekends with my best friends and support my friends who play in bands, but i am there for fun and a good time ..not for a booty call. And if for some reason you understand the meaning of 525,***minutes....YOU are already ahead of the game in my eyes. *** want more info ... I feel that we are here to live life to the fullest and not take anything for granted. I guess what i am truly looking for is someone who has these values and perspective on life. A fellow free spirit , who is ready to come play :) I love to dance at the bars with my friends... , sing and have a good time ..Life is way to short to be with people who dont make you feel like you are an amazing person and deserve for all your dreams and wishes to come true. I am currently also working on my Masters degree in counseling and Psychology , i want to work in high schools and start anti bullying programs through out the school systems. ps.... in the what am i looking for part... none of those really fits what i am searching for...I say you never know where life can take you ... live with no regrets.. and if you find someone who you get along with who makes you happy , smile lots and gives you butterflies everytime you see them, and you lay in bed at night thinking about them right before you fall asleep and they feel the same way about you then dont let it go...:) see what happens...May seem kind of intense... but i am tired of wasting time with those who say what they think you want to hear...even for fun .. i want honesty and someone who is true to themselves... I have been told in the photos i look different in most of them .. its because i like to be different..i think having the same look all the time is boring. I am all of those looks. It all depends on my mood that day !Also I have changed my lifestyle I. The past 5 months I changed the way I live. I am addicted to working out now I love going to the gym and taking care if myself in all ways possible. Just wanted to add that Ps... Please be honest and don't say what you think I wanna hear. And we will be fine :) I really am up for anything... the zoo, movies, dinner, a walk around a park, a picnic in the rain ,.. to hanging at home and watching movies or the NBA

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Music Indian Japanese Middle Eastern Martial Arts Thriller Cricket Golf Play Sport Games
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