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Sandy, 29
United States, Pennsylvania, Erie

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About Me

I would sincerely like to wish everyone the best of luck on their search for that special someone. Keep your heads up, life can really suprise you sometimes! ~big bright smile~I am an attractive, fit, intelligent woman with an athletic/curvy build and take good care of myself. I have fair skin (which never quite reaches that pretty tanned-caramel color, but I've come to terms with that ~playful curve of lips~ ), bright blue eyes that do sometimes change color, red hair and a smile that brightens every day. Personality wise, I am pretty laid back but immensely adventurous. Comfortable being by myself, one-on-one with a partner (or friend) or in a group. Like nights at home as well as going out whether for movies, comedy shows, sports events, shooting pool, working out, camping or just finding a party to drop in on. One of my favorite things to do is to get friends/family together to share good food and great conversation.Looking for someone that is equally adaptable. Life is meant for laughter and finding joy in even the simplest of things. I am drama free and looking for the same. No excessive baggage or psycho ex's that are still around please. (Just to clarify, kids are NEVER considered excess baggage, NEVER (no, I do not have any children of my own)... and ex's are fine, all the more power to you if you are able to maintain a friendship with someone you once dated. I just rather not deal with ones which will do anything within their power to make life unreasonably unpleasant, if you catch my drift. ~playful smile~ )Not every day is going to be an easy one, but what makes it GOOD is having someone to share the bad with. Someone that takes the time to make you smile, to hose you down with water and make you laugh when you're mad, to share a meal and good conversation, to fall asleep next to and wake up with. That special person that can make your spine tingle with a touch, make you "nervous" just by being near or can crank the heat between to high with a look even if you're across the room from each other.Someone that will take comfort in your strengths, help you with your weaknesses and not bring up every flaw or wrong thing you've done. We're all human and make mistakes or forget things, to expect anything else is to fool yourself. Flaws are incredibly sexy. They are what truly makes us individuals. That brings me to liars... don't like 'em, can't stand 'em, avoid them like the plague. Not being honest with those around you (or even yourself) makes life unfullfilling for everyone involved. There really isn't any point to it. I work hard for everything I have and would expect the same of a partner. My belief is that a person appreciates things more if they've earned them (vs whatever it is being 'handed' to them). I do my best to show and verbalize my appreciation to those around me. Too many people go underappreciated, sincere thank you's go a long way.I am a very physical woman. I thoroughly enjoy being touched, whether it be an arm around the waist/shoulders, a hand held, a pass of hand across the back, a kiss, a body to press/lean against.... skin to skin contact is like a jolt of electricity (in a very good way). I'll even admit to being a bit of a "cuddler". That being said, physical contact is not something I "need" (not that clingy, I'm-gunna-hang-all-over-you-all-the-time type) but it is something that brings a great deal of pleasure. Since one would hope that we're all adults here ~sassy grin~ I will also say I have a very healthy sexual appetite and an open-minded outlook in this regard. It is an important part of a relationship, therefore bears mention.I like when I'm allowed to be the "Woman", but having a tom-boy streak and independant persona, sometimes people think that I have to "wear the pants"... this is not so. Generally speaking, I prefer a guy who takes point and can make decisions. I'm capable of doing the same, but lean more toward being the giver when I'm with a strong Man (mentally and physically). To me, its best when we're well-matched. Know when to take charge and when to step back. I may not be a damsel in distress, but that doesn't mean that I want to forego my Knight. ~sweet smile~ Don't let the "tough" ~rolls eyes, teasing smile~ exterior fool you, I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic who DOES pay attention to the little things. They make me smile and someone that takes the time to do the "little extra" deserves to have it appreciated.My friends are basically a second family, me being the "Mama Wolf" of the group. I am very protective of those I care about and do everything I can to be sure they are happy and safe. I am extremely devoted to those I hold dear. It would be nice if I could find a man that gets that and maybe is even something similar to his friends. When it comes to us though, I like to let him be my hero. Just because I CAN do something doesn't mean that I would begrudge him from showing me the "right way". ~~So yeah, that's about it... keep things simple, build from a friendship, take pride in yourself and that which you do. If this fits you, message me a tell me a bit about yourself. Look forward to making your acquaintance!**Side note: If it takes me more than "30 seconds" ~teasing grin~ to get back to you, please bear with me, I may just be thinking out what I want to say. ~sweet curl of lips~ Make it an adventure.... big or small, as long as we can talk and laugh. ~~ Maybe try something one or both of us haven't done before...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae Soccer / Football
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