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Wilda, 43
United States, Virginia, Arlington

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I am glass is always half full, financially stable individual who is talkative, an extremely open communicator who you will never have to "interpret" what I'm saying.Don't let the photos fool you... Hobbies I've previously had include: hunting, snowmobiling, quadding, dirtbiking, seadooing and fishing. I'm not the keenest person on camping - but have done that too. I like taking in the game - live or televised... I'm not prissy, nor high maintenance, I'm rather easy going where little phases me. I'm not a needy individual - I enjoy time on my own and my work schedule is very flexible - so shift workers or those who work out of town can be a good match for me with no headaches.I am open to new experiences and activities. I enjoy socializing with friends - this is something I do often, be it hosting dinners/movie nights or parties in my home. I'm a true "foody" so enjoy trying new cuisine, love to cook, enjoy sampling wine... so obviously Channel ***FoodNetwork) is something that is on most of the time. As for exercise - I enjoy hot yoga and walking my dog - however, would like to try other activities - just need to be pointed in the right direction.What I look for:Openness - Open with me about where they are in their heads/hearts, where they want to be, their thoughts on things, their desires, and where they want things to go... don't say one thing, when you have something else in mind and PLEASE PLEASE don't tell me what you think I want to hear, because more than likely you will be very very wrong. A sense of humor, someone where the glass is always half full, where very little if anything is a real "crisis", no drama, someone who has direction and a true sense of self, someone who takes care of themselves, their belongings and their home. As for physical attributes... I'm 5'3" my partner hopefully will be no taller than 5'9", however, this is just a preference for me, not necessarily a rule. Preferably drinks somewhere quiet… that way we can talk and not YELL ;-) Also my preference is to go dutch for the first meeting, then there is no awkwardness. Please, please, please do not use the “let’s do it again”, “I’d like to get together again” etc unless that truly is your intent – I’m straightforward and I assume you are also. So when I’ve been told that, I truly have believed it, then been left wondering later what happened? ***, a simple, “I had a nice evening, please travel safely” – would suffice, you can always contact me later, if you change your mind. Also if you would like to move on to a second meeting “I had a great time, if you’d like to get together again, let me know” I find more comfortable than putting someone on the spot, and also gives a person time to think about how the first meeting went and what the future possibility might be… This dating thing is hard enough without the pressure and games that can sometimes go with it because people are afraid to be honest or don’t want to feel awkward or embarrassed.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electronic American Canadian Caribbean Sailing
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