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Cara, 42

United States, Virginia, Arlington

Offline, last seen Sat, 15 Aug 2026 15:58:10

About Me

*****I'm looking for a long term relationship.*****Chemistry and attraction is vital to a relationship meaning I need to be able to relate to you on a physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual basis.We have to be able to laugh and have a great time together, we have to be able to trust and give each other sound advice, we have to have each other's back at all times, and of course we have to be able to satisfy each other completely. If you're looking for the same thing and you think your mature enough to fit this bill then great by all means *** isn't so much an issue for me but if you're not spiritual then that's a deal breaker.If your profile says "casual dating/no commitment" then I won't respond that's a RED FLAG that you are not looking for the same thing that I am.*****Also if you're profile is hidden another Major RED FLAG.*****Also if you are my age and never been married RED FLAG.I need someone that can fit into my life and understand me. I'm a divorced single mom with kids. So I need a family guy, a relationship type of guy, a mature guy.I'm best described as a good woman with a good head on her shouldersI'm responsible I take care of business so to speak. I'm articulate, I know what I want and I'm happy with me and my accomplishments thus far in life.I have my own condo, my own car, a good job and a bright future.I would however like to find the right gentleman to spend my days and nights with, someone who has eyes only for me and gets nervous and excited every time he lays eyes on me.Yes I have kids as most do who are my age. Yes I love them with all my heart but they are my responsibility.Their father is in their life but there is absolutely no drama. We realized a long time ago that it was no longer about us but it was about them and creating the best environment for which they can thrive and become productive, responsible adults one day. They are well on their way. They are respectful and will treat my special someone with good manners and respect.A little about me: I'm outgoing, well spoken, educated, successful, fun, loyal, interesting, classy, old school in some things, respect my elders, but I'm also romantic, sensual and down right sexy.What I would like from you is integrity, be a man of your word, be spiritual, be spontaneous, be fun, be loyal, be a relationship type of guy, be mature, have your act together ie. have your own place, own car, a decent job. The amount of education you have or don't have isn't an issue for me as long as your making an honest living. You must however not smoke, do drugs, be married. You must be attractive to me. I don't have a type per say but something about you has to lead me to a connection with you. I don't mind being with an older man but I don't want someone to mistake me for being your daughter either.I'm pretty down to earth I can fit in almost any group whether it be rich or poor or a different ethnic culture.I'm sincere and genuine but also extremely diplomatically honest.If you look and don't write then I will assume I'm not for you. If you do write be sincere and respectful. If it's not a love connection I will be polite but also not waste your time.The Notebook is my favorite movie. If you've seen it mention it in your *** I know you read my profile.Happy Fishing and Best Regards,Always Romantic Girl Coffee no need to invest a lot of money or time until we both know if there is a connection.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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