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Alisha, 42
United States, Virginia, Arlington

Offline, last seen Thu, 18 Jun 2026 14:31:45

About Me

I am a single mother of 5, 4 still are at home and they are my world. I was in a mentally abusive relationship for 14 yrs and now want to have fun. I want to meet people and have a good time. I am a hillbilly, hippie gal with lots of love for life. I am a simple person. I never had money and never wanted it. It seems like a lot of people on here are into material things THAT'S NOT ME! I am over weight. I have lost a lot and plan on losing more. If your looking for a Barbie Doll you should keep on going. I love going to the creek to play with the kids, going to auction (poultry and livestock). Going to concerts and hanging out with friends, bbq's and occasionally I like to go to the bar with friends. I drink on weekends sometimes but am so not interested in a drunk. I hate stupid tweekers!! I know from experience what it can take from you. Yes I have a past! I love all kinds of music from Johnny Cash to Five Finger Death Punch. Music soothes me, no matter the mood. I have a job and my own vehicle. I live in my own home and don't need a man to rescue me I just am tired of being lonely. I never went to college but I am far from *** have made bad choices in life but they have all taught me something. Everyday is a new day! Update- What is wrong with you guys? You want a perfect woman... there is no such thing!!! We all have baggage, we all have faults, your never going to find a perfect woman. No I don't have plans to ever get married. Not what I am looking for!!! Never been married and never want to be (as far as I know) Just want to get to know somebody, have a good time. BE ME!! LIVE LIKE THERE IS NO TOMORROW!!! 80 lbs gone! yeah me!April ***total bls gone in just over a year! still searching for a "real" guy may never find him? hoping this summer is more fun than last and just want to be happy. depends on the circumstances

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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