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Helen, 42
United States, Virginia, Arlington

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What makes me, ME?? hmmmm as it was said to me by one of my Chief's: "you are a phenomenal, beautiful, successful, caring and loyal woman." The rest I will leave up to you to ask and find out. I will mention that I am a hardworking, go getter who at the present moment devotes all the time I have to giving back to those who have made a great impact on my life. But as I always say, when you care that much about someone, you WILL always find and make the time to be and spend with them no matter what...As the saying goes: "where there is a will, there is always a way!" If you dwell on your blessings rather than your problems, your goals rather than your disappointments, and the people that you love rather than those who have hurt you, then you will attract more blessings, more love, and more accomplishments...Don't limit yourself. Many people limit themselves to what they think they can do. You can go as far as your mind lets you. What you believe, remember, you can achieve...As we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your heart broken and you'll break other's hearts. You'll Fight with your best friend or even Fall in love with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So take lots of pictures, laugh a lot, forgive freely, and love like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. You just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back...I love a man who is intelligent and who can stimulate my mind. A man who holds beauty on the inside. One who is loving, giving, trusting, honest, loyal, who loves me for the woman that I am. Who will support me in all my decision making. Who will be at my side through the good and the bad times. A man who isn't afraid to show his true emotions. One who will make me his number one choice and not his number one option. A true gentleman at heart...the boy next door type with a slight bad boy side to him ;-) Who said chivalry is dead ;-) A nice quiet place where we can get to know a little bit more about each other and see where it goes from there :-) When you begin to touch your heart or let your heart be touched, you begin to discover that it's bottomless, that it doesn't have any resolution, that this heart is huge, vast, and limitless. You begin to discover how much warmth and gentleness is there, as well as how much space. live laugh love

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-31

    I base my life on loyalty, sincerity and morals! Hate stupidity and lies. Expect the same from my partner. My partner should be faithful, trustful, capable of being responsible for actions. I'm a big kid loves Disney

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  • Brittney from Arlington | Woman | 42 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    A little about me....I'm currently training for the SD Tough Mudder. Excited and looking forward to the challenge. Other than that I enjoy hiking, running, working out, eating healthy, photography, weekend road trips, sushi (YUM), the occasional night at a local club, opening doors for strangers, hosting fundraisers to feed the homeless or raise money for animals, a night of cuddling on the couch (the BEST break from a busy schedule), blah, blah, blah. It all sounds so mundane while writing it down.I've dated off and on for the past few years and now I'm at a point where I'd like to find something long term. I won't date for the sake of dating as I'm pretty content being single. I won't BS you if you don't BS me. It seems many guys on here write or say, "I'm looking for a relationship or long term..." but yet they can't let go of being single. I'm too old for the BS and drama that seems to come along with dating these days. I don't have much tolerance for it either.I'm an active, down to earth gal who is looking for someone to date with the idea of finding a long term relationship...the real deal. Along with chemistry, mutual things in common, I'm looking for someone local. ****Sorry, I won't be reading *** anyone outside of my direct area. Done it, gave it real effort and will never do it again.**** That is a deal breaker. And while we are at it please make sure your profile has pictures of you. Several would be ideal. Just as men need attraction so do women. Short and sweet

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  • Effie from Arlington | Woman | 43 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Well this is all very new to me I have been in a relationship for a very long time. I'm looking for that specail person i can be myself around that makes me smile every time l see him and always makes me laugh. I enjoy going out to dinner but i also love to cook and be home. I love to dance, workout, play sports and Im up to trying new things. I love dogs, I have one now and will probably always have at least one. So you must love dogs too. I'm also very close to my family that's important to me. Somewhere we both will feel comfortable and not feel pressured. Maybe just meet for a tea/coffee somewhere and see how that goes or do something active like a walk or some kind of sport.

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