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Lula, 42

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About Me

This is a first and so not me but here goes. Im fun, Im real, and Im easy going. I dont play games and will run fast if you do. I stand up for myself but apologize like crazy if Im wrong. I play alot but also very serious when provoked. I've had my own business for 12 years. I worked very hard to build it. Business is slow right now and Ive decided its time for something else. I can take care of myself dont need any help for that but if your looking for someone with something financial to offer you should keep looking. Im a very independant person so clingy and jealous dont work for me. Im very loyal but I also think space and time with friends is healthy for any relationship.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ramona

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am : strong, independent, sassy, passionate, compassionate, driven, earthy, modern, rustic, cautious, intuitive, intelligent, Kind approachable and financial independent. I own and maintain my own home. Im coach bags to flee markets, I'm a great friend, a great mom, a great cook. I'm a jack of all trades. I'm a problem solver. I respect the earth and love being outdoors. I enjoy hiking, yoga, dancing, mini weekend vacations, cafes, fine dinning and ethnic comfort food. I actually enjoy eating healthy . Im a thinker, I appreciate art, architecture, design, and I love to write. I'm a lil obsessed with people and how we all show up differently and why. I'm not religious but I believe in spirituality. Im not about rules or intense politics but I can debate. I can hold an intelligent conversation but I boar and frustrate with narrow minded judgmental opinions . I'm open minded and always respects others opinions as there own. I'm fine wine or margarita's I'm musicals and sporting events. I enjoy a healthy sex life, everyone should. My partner should be energetic personable, friendly, independent, trust worthy, ACCOUNTABLE, supportive. You should enjoy talking and be able to handle conflict respectfully and appropriate . You should be my best friend. You should be romantic and know what I like, ( i like surprises ) you should want to give me the stars if you could . You should always want me around, best buddy's. if weve been together for ten years you should still be excited to see me when I walk in a room . You should be personable and confidant but not arrogant. I wont tolerate rude or prejudice toward anyone and I mean anyone. I wouldn't want you to be extreme with sports, politics, the gym, TV, work, or money. You have to be intelligent and This doesn't have to mean you've spent half your life in college. Emotional intelligence is higher on my list, there will be a quiz lol.... You have to accept and understand kids ( mine are not babies ) They don't need a father but a friendship is a must . Im very involved with there life's. I spend a lot of time with there activities. Hopefully if you have children you have a friendship with your ex because its whats best for the kids but there are exceptions I understand this . If you have children but know relationship with them I have know understanding at all so don't even bother trying to explain move on.. ( send a message lets see if we can make each other HAPPY for life. One more ,,, I'm not perfect and i'd rather you not be either, that's just to boring for me. I like growing with someone, let me know your flaws ill tell you mine lets inspire each other to becoming our best selves it takes two. This isn't something that should be taken as lightly as it seems to be on these sights. Online dating is difficult enough, but to not show anything special, to not show any character. For me is the reason why I believe I haven't had any chemistry with anyone. If I asked someone out I would want to show this person what being with me might look like. Just thought I'd give some insight to those who are having difficulties . A creative date can be less expensive that a few drinks or dinner, so are you thoughtful or in a rush. I felt i needed to say something , if you message me I will read your profile in its entirety before I even look at your message So please let me know something about you that you know about you. I won't read a profile if there are know picture's its just creepy . If Im not hiding that means I'm real and Im looking for a real person not a creeper, And guys please stop using the words no drama . Life is drama everyone has experienced life's drama's. If you have kids you cant avoid drama, my daughters hair every morning before school is drama, sometimes its so traumatic there's tears. Kids are drama, ex's can be drama, owning a home can bring drama a bad neighbor can bring drama .... If your talking about drama in such a dramatic way then maybe you might have been the cause of it to begin with. Sorry I sound so harsh but its just obvious to me. Drama shows emotion and sometimes passion Its not always something to get attention but i do get that is also out there to. I'd rather have some drama and understand how someone will show up in a stressful situation than find out that someone has no emotion no passion and no COPING skills . Just being real ... ; )

  • Estelle

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hippie mother of three beautiful girls...trying to start my own business.Not your normal nerd, one tattoo and three piercings. Happy in my own skin, and good with the person I am .Working on improving the financial part of my life, but will never change who I am for someone else. My kids mean EVERYTHING TO ME! I have a daughter in college, one in middle school and one in high school. Not looking for a sugar daddy, looking for my best friend and soul mate.

  • Gladys

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    People tend to say I am shy, but not after I get to know the person. I am goal oriented, spontaneous, love to learn, always like a good horror movie, and family is the most important to me. For some reason I am the one that everyone seems to come to for advice, I guess that is because I am a great listener and know how to communicate. I am more of a girly girl then a tom boy but I don't mind getting my hands dirty when fun is involved. I can dress up for a night on the town or dress down for the backyard bonfire. I am hoping to meet someone that is intelligent and has common sense, strange how those two traits don't go hand in hand! He should be family oriented and be open to at least meeting the right person for a long term relationship. He should like children, should have an adventurous side, and be spontaneous. He should have a good understanding that any relationship requires work but it shouldn't feel like work in the beginning. He should know in a healthy relationship there is a You, Me, and Us. It all depends on the person, but typically I would meet for coffee and if we both felt we should have a "real" first date then we might plan something like dinner or something adventurous to do. We could always go to a museum or park.

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