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Ilene, 41

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Ok here we go.. enough questions about my profile! "Yes I know it looked like I was drunk filling it out" No I wasnt! I didnt have the time or keyboard to fill it out and the minimum keystrokes was very high! so I just hit keys to get through it!I am a very independant woman who owns a few homes, has a dog, and a good job. I havent been married and do not have any children. I like 80s music and country! Hate Rap and dance music. I like reading, especially vampire books. I work on my own cars-have two. I like listening to live music on occastion to local bands. ( I do know a few) I do enjoy a festival or two in the summer. (not a big summerfest fan though) I am a family person and normally spend time once a week with them and my new nephew. I love traveling and watching movies when time. During this month I go out with groups to go through haunted houses-so cant be a wimp. lolI am looking for a minimal drinker and bar person, occasional is fine. A honest, good sense of humor and likes dogs a big plus. A guy that can fix things is great too! If you are at the bar all the time after work or is a smoker or loves strip joints dont *** your gone every weekend up north hunting, dont *** get me wrong, I have hunted in my life, and fished and even have a snowmobile, also camped. However, I dont have a big interest in that too much anymore. I do like however going up to a cabin upnorth and target shooting and doing fireworks over the 4th of July. I do not want a player either and very sick of the bar scene. See band or meet for a drink, or coffee, tea or go for a walk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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