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Estella, 47

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Okay, well I'm going to put it out there like this...I was in a relationship for 10 yrs. The sex and fun was great - the sex always, the fun most of the time, actually sometimes too much...but other times the whole thing sucked...So here I am. I don't cheat, nor do I lie. I have two children (my daughter is 16, my son 12). I am looking for a great guy that I am physically attracted to, and he, I - physical attraction and chemistry is extremely important - If it's not there, it's not there...- did I say physical attraction and chemistry?, 'cause physical attraction and chemistry are really important to me, lol. Looking for someone that is responsible and knows what integrity is, yet still has a bit of a wild side....Someone who wants to have fun. Not just in the bedroom, lol, but that too! Looking for an honest person, not a player, best friend material - that is active, likes to laugh, have a few drinks.... Also, likes to work out maybe even a workout partner or personal trainer (even better) lol - I like to rollerblade, ride bikes - Always up for new adventures.ME:I love to laugh until my stomach hurts, am a very passionate person, a very honest person, who will try anything once. I own a little post office/retail store, I love animals - had a horse growing up .I also like gardening - I grow pineapples in my back yard. Love boats, motorcycles (anything fast), fishing, cooking out, making fires. On the other hand, I love travelling - although I haven't in a while - dressing up, nice restaurants, shows, events, (actually a city girl at heart) "WHAT AREN'T WE GONNA DO?' Lol...My favorite music changes between alternative - sublime, 311, disturbed, rage against the machine, shinedown, cake, linkin' park, you get the pic and hip/hop stuff -- I eat healthy and workout when I can...I love the dictionary, lol, love chicken wings and pizza and crab legs.... It doesn't matter really, as long as I don't feel pressured, uncomfortable.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rachael

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    European transplant who's grown roots in SD over the past 15 years looking to share time with someone who is well balanced and grounded, yet funny and spontaneous; emotional and finacial stabilty and availability is preferred... Would be nice if you can speak a language other than English, you have traveled a bit and have a few favorite places you'd like to revisit and share... I best get along with a young spirited old soul with lots of energy.Perhaps dichotomy is the word .... however this should not translate into drama.Have many interests, somewhat of Jane-of-all-trades. Can be a tomboy if needed, but I clean up really well very quickly. Would like to think I am perfect, but there still some work to do :-)I believe we need laugher and affection, caring and compassion, to make the world a better place.My music choices depend on mood, activity and company. Good food paired with awesome wine is always welcome ***if you cook I'll do the dishes:-).)I don't belive in endless typing., and photos also don't represent the true nature of a person. It is the personal interaction that will make or break a connection........ If you agree, say hello, you will not regret it.Otherwise good luck in your endeavors Let's meet, greet, chit-chat, in the park, coffe house, or beach - and take it from there... I am looking for a connection with the potential for mutual chemistry . We'll know when we meet.....

  • Patti

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'd like to start by explaining what "Looking for a Relationship" means to me: I've had many wonderful experiences meeting people the last couple years ~~ I have learned and know so much more about not only myself, my wants, needs and desires. Ultimately, I'd like to find the perfect man for me, but believe it will happen when it happens. There's no rush, although, if the right chemistry comes along tomorrow, I certainly would not let it escape me. If it doesn't appear until months down the road, then fine. There's also a possibility it will never come along, in which case, that would have to be fine, too! :-) ~ Cliffs Notes© of Me ~I have a penchant for deep, brown eyes and beautiful smiles. I prefer a good non-fiction or music over TV. I prefer dresses over jeans (although seems I wear a lot of jeans with stilettos). I hate sushi, but love Godiva G Collection. I'm no one's moral compass but my own. I'm intolerant of those who aren't tolerant. I hate yard work, but I'll happily house clean. I used to be pensive, now I'm not so sure. I've never been to Starbucks. I don't need my soul saved. I'm perfectly happy with my current after-life plan. I know how to keep a secret. I lean to the left, and a little to the right, but am not a member of any political party. I live in the world, not merely on it. Big spiders and other big creepy crawlers creep me out. I prefer a comfortable silence over idle chit-chat. I'd rather receive a kiss than a dozen red roses, and I'd rather give the perfect gift than something un-thought-out. I smell good on purpose; and a million other tiny little things that would just clutter up this corner of cyber-space, and still wouldn't really describe "who" I am or what I am all about. That's what the "getting to know you" stage of this is all about (isn't it?????)~ Cliffs Notes© of Him ~I don't have a 40 mile long list of traits that the hypothetical "Mr. Right For Me" possesses. There are a few things written in stone: 1.) He knows the difference between 'then' and 'than,' or 'they're' 'their' and 'there' 3.) He has been single long enough to know that online is a human buffet but no longer wishes to try every item. It's all about "who" he is, and "who" he'd like to become on his continuous life journey 4.) Physical activity/cares about appearance and health is part of my everyday life ~ if motivation is absent and lazing around important, we would not be a good match. I'm healthy and enjoy active lifestyles. I need that in a romantic partner. I see no logical reason to start something with someone that is destined to end due to something as important as life-style preferences. Finally ~ he knows how to use *** to complement his life, not replace it.Hope you can relate! If so, would love to hear from you. Happy fishing to all! I think a first meeting should be kept simple since it is based on discovery of mutual attraction/connection. Perhaps someplace casual and comfortable for a drink and/or appetizer to talk and see if we share a connection that will lead to a real date.

  • Eva

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am an interesting combination of traits I have been told by others. I am involved in the arts professionally and am passionate about music, love all types of music. I love to travel, particularly to more out of the ordinary, or obscure areas. There is a lot more of the world for me to see yet! I am more the type to explore the culture of the place I am visiting as opposed to one that never "leaves the resort" so to speak! I have a zest for life and passion for learning what is new and exciting in the world. Positive outlook on life is key!I am very dedicated to my work and students and am thankful to do something I love every day for work. As well, I have a very close connection with my family and a group of friends I care a great deal about. I love adventure and have some pretty fast paced activities as hobbies, however I can also enjoy quiet evenings at home cooking a nice meal and enjoying it with someone over a nice glass of red. I take care of myself, exercising regularly, lots of energy. I am a person with a great deal of integrity and am looking for someone like that as well. Honesty, integrity, self-confidence, intelligence and a great sense of humor (goofy is good!) are important to me. Not really interested in flings...everything happens in good time!Good luck in your searching! Probably depends on the person, maybe a coffee, glass of wine, a walk, or dinner. Just a chance to get to know each other really!

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