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Hello I am a single mother of two kids. I am seeking a man who loves Jesus and has a personal relationship with God. I want someone who is respectful of my feelings, and of the fact that I have two kids. I have been in a few relationships that failed and I know what I want. I like to take my kids to the park, go to movies, go on walks. I would prefer to meet someone at least in the same state. I like to listen to Christian music, jazz, rock yes it's a wide range. I work as a case manager for people experiencing both cognitive and intellectual disabilities. I have tried these sites before, and haven't had many successes hence why I am back. As mentioned I am a Christian which doesn't mean I'm religious it means I have a personal relationship with God. I believe in the Holy Spirit and believe that Jesus died on the cross for our sins and rose again. I am looking for a man who can be a good spiritual leader for my family and help me raise my kids knowing God. I want someone I can pray with, read with and attend Church with. I'd rather start slow and work my way up to a relationship. I am not desperate and will not settle for less than what I desire. I hope that doesn't scare people. Let's just say I've failed enough to know exactly what I want and I am willing to be patient for what God has in store for me. I am compassionate, I love helping others out, I love adventures and trying new things. I've travelled to India and gone on a few mission trips. If any of this intrigues you feel free to drop me a line! Z**note I am not going to introduce my kids until at least 6 months of getting to know each other. My kids have suffered in the past for my mistakes and relationships that did not work and it's not fair that they get attached to someone only to have them taken away**Deal Breakers: smoking; being too controlling; wanting something shallow such as just a physical brief thing, drinking excessively (occasionally is fine, every day I can't deal with) Somewhere we can talk such as a park or coffee shop.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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