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Melissa, 24
United States, Pennsylvania, Reading

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About Me

In school full time to eventually become an ND (Naturopathic physician***Yes give me crap for occasionally smoking :P. I also work full time at a WebSite/eCommerce/app building firm as the office manager and project developer. Busy busy! Settling in.. Semi recently got out of a relationship and not ready to jump the gun. Just meet people. Guys who maybe down the road want something meaningful and can kick it as just friends for now, never know what could happen though. Just being straight here, I'm not ready for something more quite yet. Focusing on school, work, myself; I like the out doors, coffee, food, hanging out, festivals but I'm also driven and have goals. I'm a good hearted women who selflessly acts. I'm a nurturer by nature, but never intend to smoother--people take my giving personality and open heart as a clingy type and I am far from that. I'm confident, happy, love to have fun, cook, eat well...yadda yadda. I'm honestly a catch that's been cast out too much. My self worth isn't diminished, I'm just taking a break for a bit to stumble on someone who will respect and care for me as much as I do when I'm interested in someone. And seriously, honesty and communication are key. I'm not down for the deleted/hidden texts, head games, expect 100% perfection from my partner every moment, you not saying how you feel to not hurt me BS that everyone seems to enjoy... It all takes work and I can't read minds and neither can you. I don't want drama, not my style. Not into games. Not into being a stepping stone or ego boost. Unless you're in it to be in it, I love supporting the people I care for. If we just end up being friends, ill be a badass friend and awesome wing woman. Just have to be real from the get go ;)I'm nearing 25 so my ideal guy is starting to get picky. Honesty, communication, open minded but driven, funny, goofy, cares about his well being, someday kids...someday far haha. Just someone real. And to be frank, attractive (yes, we're all human and all shallow a little--I admit this) and goal driven too. Money isn't my motive and having an 8pack isn't required. Be happy, do you, take care of yourself. Do all of those things so if we were to date we could actually have a good go, because I already have those things to offer. Anyhow, just message me for a hike, coffee...whatever. But if you're truly looking for a wife/serious relationship right now I can't offer that to you. Not until a friendship is established and you respect and understand I'm getting my own life situated. I have no time frame, love happens when it happens. If you're just looking to bang it out, go to the bar. I enjoy [that] as most do, but again if I'm even bothering putting myself out there a little right now (aka this site)--it's not to grab a whole lot. And really if I just wanted to get some, I know I wouldn't need to hide behind my computer screen to do that ;) (Man I sound****..) Sparks could happen, never know. Just don't expect anything. Let it come naturally.I'm also a little awkward (okay highly awkward) in a good way. I'm great with people, but the whole idea meeting someone I found online is still an odd concept to me so I'm not sure how to go about meeting someone who catches my interest (friend or more) from here. And to end what could sound bitter or a totally spiteful and ****y about me, I'm far from. Just focused and taking life as it comes. I'm a sweet girl who is just living. And of course hoping to someday meet someone mutually special to one another. Not call it a date first off is a good start ;) maybe play pool, go snowboarding/skiing, anything active really. A drink....but I'm so odd, one on one is weird to me. I'm such an awkward dater haha

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian Irish Spanish Golf
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