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PurpleAmity, 32

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About Me

Hi there! Please no Hook Ups. I am looking for a long term relationship with a gentleman, someone that is willing to sit down and get to know me and my heart.. one that's not so quick to sex. I am very loving, romantic, caring, goofy and fun. I have also been told I have a nurturing nature. Take a chance and get to know me and I'm sure it'll be a good choice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Mixed

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

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  • Paula

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-48

    All the broken hearts in the world still beat, let's not make this harder than it has to be. :)I am going to be honest, below is as honest as I know how to be in this medium. I am not perfect but I believe that my imperfections will be viewed as quirks and smiles to someone else. That is vice versa...it's what we are looking for right? Not Mr or Mrs perfect just Mr or Mrs perfect for us. I'm sarcastic and blunt but if you have the right attitude the two can go well together. I'm a Minnesota native who moved to Utah 5 years ago and now I'm back. Feels like I'm starting over! When it comes to this dating thing I'm going to be honest, I stink at it. That whole art of flirting thing has not been passed down to me. So if you want to meet a nice girl who will try to flirt but at times it comes across as awkward, has her own place, own car, own job, no kids but an insane cat, loves coffee, wears a size 18 jeans but has a gym membership, love big bang theory, wants to go to the next comicon, and is truly genuine, I might be your cup of tea.What I want:I want to be the girl you want to take out in the daylight. The girl you want to hold hands with and be proud to say she's with you. A last minute call on a Friday night after you've had a few with a follow-up invitation to your place or mine afterwards does not interest me. I expect to meet someone who respects me at least as much as I respect myself. I'm talking to most of you that are in your 30's or 40's and don't think it's a stretch that the expectation is I'm treated better than a girl at a college frat party.I've been on here for a while. I'm at the point I want to date one person and see what happens. If we meet and don't click no harm no foul. I won't be your "there was nothing better to do so I called you" girl. Now I understand how these two statements can come across. I'm not a man hater or do I think that everyone on here is a bad person. Don't confuse my directness with some sort of dysfunction and send me a dissertation on what I really meant. I know what I meant and I typed what I meantShould we talk or not?If you aren't looking to meet someone with the potential of more then we won't click. Plenty of people on here looking for FWB/NSA If you are still married whether separated or not or just recently out of a relationship, I'm probably not going to be nurturing enough to build you back upIf you need someone who is available 7 days a week to hang out - well I like my girl timeDisclosure:I get these messages telling me how I should change my profile to be softer. I don't disagree. That being said the men on here know that girls get a lot of messages. Why not be up front in what your looking for so the person who sends the message is on the same page?Look at a profile before contacting someone. So I smoke when I drink. Yes I do drink. If you have a problem with either don't message me. I promise you that you will be so much happier in the long run actually reading about who you are contacting than spending 20 minutes of your life exchanging messages. Another thing to look at, body type. For god's sake don't message a girl who says she's not skinny and then tell her you want someone in great shape. Sorry for the rant. I am busy just like the rest of you and the one thing to test my paitence is *** this didn't scare too many people away.We could start out by playing air hockey. It is a wonderful thing to do when first meeting. Laid back, fun, competitive with only a few bruised knuckles. Then we can do dinner or coffee if the conversation is going well. I hate uncomfortable silence so tend to lean towards things that involve some activity. I don't believe the first time you meet someone it is a date. If we are being honest both people are checking the other one out to see if they were the person they thought they were. A first meeting is a potential new friend, a 2nd meeting determines if your still friends or if it's a date.

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-45

    I am a good-hearted, determined, and friendly person who likes to have fun, but also has a serious side. I love sarcasm. I'm family oriented and love animals. I strive to live an overall healthy lifestyle and would love to find someone who is interested in the same. Overall, my ultimate goal in life is to be able to look back when I'm old and have few regrets. It would be nice if the person that I met knows what he wants. I'm looking for someone who has a kind heart, an honest personality, and the knowledge that a relationship takes work on both ends with communication being a key element. I'm the type of person who keeps their guard up for a little, so I will need some patience in that respect. I would love to just get to know a guy before committing head-on into a relationship. I feel like there needs to be a connection before all of that. I'm not looking for someone who is perfect, just perfect for me. It would be wonderful to have a man who likes to make his woman feel special and thought of- romanticism is never a bad quality.A first date would be dependent on a lot of things. I think it's something we could decide on together. :)

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