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Mattclay, 31

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About Me

Hi! My name is Mattclay. I am separated buddhist asian man without kids from United States, Hawaii, M C B H Kaneohe Bay. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Asian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

INTERESTS

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  • Amasai

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    Man. 27 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 24-34

    Before describing what I'm seeking, I will put up some disclaimers at the outset. I'm a person who cannot settle for the average in any area of life. Although I'm not physically choosy, the woman I'd want to be with must stand out from the crowd in terms of her personality, interests and passion for life. You don't have to be a supermodel - if I wanted plastic, I'd buy a Barbie doll - but you must be unique in all the world to me, even if others don't see you that way, and in the end I must be unique in all the world to you, or the relationship won't work out. I'm particularly drawn to artsy, creative women, but open to dating other types as well, provided we click at some level. While I enjoy some of the more traditional, "sexy" things couples do together, I'm also looking to share the simple moments of life with someone who is appreciative of what life has to offer; someone who finds cuddling on a bench by the river and feeding ducks just as sexy as a fancy dinner and night at the opera. I want to hold my woman in my arms and not have to tell her that she's special to me, because we're too busy looking into each other's eyes and laughing, and we both know that the best things in life don't always need to be described or spelled out.I'm looking for a woman who is passionate about life, open-minded and willing to embrace new experiences. I want someone who's grounded enough to know where she's going in life, but cracked enough to still be fun. My ideal woman who would be open to finding authentic companionship and a good conversationalist. I adore a woman who is intellectually engaging, but still willing to let her inner child come out to play; who can be equally at home climbing a fence or exploring an old building as she is sharing tender glances over a candlelit dinner on my porch. While I enjoy the outdoors (hiking, camping, etc. I'm eccentric, driven, artsy and creative. I'm into esoteric spirituality, but not an official member of any one path or religion. I'm ok with dating someone who is religious, but you must be open-minded, because I do study some odd things, like alchemy. Although I generally play nice, I'll warn that I'm not entirely fluffy - I enjoy a nice glass of absinthe now and then and I don't mind playing in the shadows a bit. I'm more likely to spend Friday night at the local new age bookstore or at an art gallery than I am sitting in a bar listening to country music. If that's too nontraditional for you, then you would be better off finding a guy who watches NASCAR and drinks PBR - fair warning. :)If I was going to make a statement to any future lover, I think the poem below would be it. Check it out and if anything here sounds of interest, drop me a line and let's get to know each other a bit. Your pic will score mine.The InvitationBy: Oriah Mountain DreamerIt doesn't interest me what you do for a livingI want to know what you ache forand if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.It doesn't interest me how old you areI want to know if you will risk looking like a foolfor lovefor your dreamsfor the adventure of being alive.It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon...I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrowif you have been opened by life's betrayalsor have become shrivelled and closedfrom fear of further pain.I want to know if you can sit with painmine or your ownwithout moving to hide itor fade itor fix it.I want to know if you can be with joymine or your ownif you can dance with wildnessand let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of yourfingers and toeswithout cautioning us tobe carefulbe realisticto remember the limitations of being human.It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling meis true.I want to know if you candisappoint anotherto be true to yourself.If you can bear the accusation of betrayaland not betray your own soul.If you can be faithlessand therefore trustworthy.I want to know if you can see Beautyeven when it is not prettyevery day.And if you can source your own lifefrom its presence.I want to know if you can live with failureyours and mineand still stand on the edge of the lakeand shout to the silver of the full moon,"Yes."It doesn't interest meto know where you live or how much money you have.I want to know if you can get upafter a night of grief and despairweary and bruised to the boneand do what needs to be doneto feed the children.It doesn't interest me who you knowor how you came to be here.I want to know if you will standin the center of the firewith meand not shrink back.It doesn't interest me where or what or with whomyou have studied.I want to know what sustains youfrom the insidewhen all else falls away.I want to know if you can be alonewith yourselfand if you truly like the company you keepin the empty moments. Message me and let's find out. ;)

  • Isa

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    Man. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 25-35

    Work brought me up here and I don't know the area well, nor do I know many people, so drop a line and say hello :)Nuts and Bolts:I analyze everything and believe I can learn/figure pretty much anything out short of rocket science; I'm a hands on learner, books don't do much for my understanding of a subject; Type-A male that is always willing to step up and take charge, adrenaline junky, yet kind-hearted, and loves animals and babies; Willing to put as much as I have into a friendship or relationship and usually allow myself to get taken advantage of more than once before I address it or cut ties; DRAMA FREE... I don't get into it;I'm borderline compulsive about cleaning my vehicles... I like my ride to look nice :)I am a simple person, but not a simple minded person. I grew up a country boy in a small town. This, however, does not mean that I am backwards. I enjoy nice things, but take pleasure, and find solitude, in simple acts and situations.. I'm a fun loving kind of guy, but I'm definitely long out of my "party" stage. I did the whole nightly going out thing long ago... That's what college was for :) I still like to go out socially every now and then, but DEFINITELY don't have to be in a bar or be drinking to have a good time;I am an Iraq veteran and wouldn't trade that life experience for anything;I work in Law Enforcement and love every minute of it;Jack of all trades. I can build it or fix it.New alternative rock, classic rock, 80's hair bands, some older rap, and country;My hobbies include: Motorcycle riding, both on the street and in the dirt; I am also a self taught musician on the piano, drums, and guitar;I grew up hunting and fishing and also enjoy hiking and camping;I love to target shoot. I also enjoy teaching safety and marksmanship to new shooters;;So, I guess there should be something in here about what I'm looking for...:I'd like to find someone who enjoys being outside and active as much as I do; I like a woman who can be comfortable getting dressed up for occasions, but can also be cool with ratty jeans and sh*tkicker boots;I'm an educated person who has working knowledge in a lot of different areas and I'm always willing to learn new things, so someone similar in that aspect would be nice;I can be very serious when the time comes, but I can also be a goofball. Some might say I can be a bit of a smart ass, ok, a huge smart ass, but it's all in good fun. I would definitely like someone who can keep me on my toes and fire lines back at me when I get rolling;I also try to keep myself in shape. I'm not a 6 pack glistening in the sun kind of guy.. More of a broad-shouldered farmers tan kind of guy. :) I definitely don't have aspirations to date a supermodel, but someone who respects their body enough to watch what goes in it and take care of it checks off a pretty major box on my list.Thanks for reading and Good Luck! How about dinner and drinks, possibly brunch and coffe, maybe a walk, maybe Bed Bath and Beyond; I don't know.. I don't know if we'll have enough time!

  • Gomer

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    Man. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 25-35

    I don\'t drink, smoke, do drugs, or gamble so sometimes it makes it difficult for me to meet people my age, because bars just really are not my thing. I search for a homely partner non drinker.

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