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Candylady
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Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 31-51
Hi! My name is Candylady. I am divorced catholic african woman with kids from Beaumont, Texas, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.
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Marisa
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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
Prerequisites: Christian•Not Married•Not Separated (that's still MARRIED!) No shirtless pics (looking for a modest man)• No drinking/drunk pics (looking for a man with class & a grown up)• I am a hopeless romantic that wants very much to believe in true love and soulmates despite the fact that I am now ***or 29 for the 9th time as my sister and I prefer to say) and still have not found it...or it hasn't found me, whichever is correct. I thought I had a few times but I was sadly mistaken. Maybe it's not even about "soulmates," but rather two people wanting the same things, attracted to each other mentally, emotionally, and physically, and here is the important part... committed to stand by each other through lifes twists and turns, heartaches, and growing pains. But, I know of a few couples my parents included that were true blue soulmates... so I still believe. I am an independent woman and mother but not so independent that I don't realize that I would be so much better with a life partner. I want him to be my best friend and lover. Unfortunately for me, most of the men I hear from must only read that word "lover," and the rest of my profile is a complete blurrrrrrrrrrr..... Because, it has been my experience that most of the men that have asked me out from here are looking to hook up and nothing else. I am a little too grown up for that. I am after all...a lady. And I still believe that there are some gentlemen out there in the sea of fishies. It is my passion to work with survivors of trauma and eventually get into social policy. I am also a mother of five, yes five amazingly beautiful and fantastic children. If you are still reading this then you obviously did not freak out at the number five so I will disclose a little more info about my entourage. I have four daughters ages 19, 13,11, and 3, and a son who is 17. I share custody of my son and the next two girls. ( I was in a relationship with the oldest fours' father for nearly 13 years; that ended in ***And, my youngest is from a different father, she is primarily with me (I was with her father for 5 years). I'm saying this up front because the question, "are all your children from the same father?" is really tacky and I'd rather just avoid it all together. This way if you ask...I'll know you didn't bother to read my profile. I will not tolerate any form of abuse or ownership in any of my future relationships...been there, done that and I do not care to repeat the cycle. Two people who care about each other should never purposely hurt each other whether it's with words or actions. I've been cheated on and I know how badly that hurts. I have never nor would I ever cheat on someone. I have never understood why people even bother to get into a relationship if they are still wanting to sleep around or date other people. Also, I am not into open relationships... so please do not ask me out if this is something you fantasize about or God help you...practice. I'm completely disgusted by it. Eventually after I am finished with school which will be spring of ***, I would like to keep my options open to either moving somewhere more beautiful with water and mountains preferably or settling into the country somewhere here in Oz. I am a country girl at heart and always will be. Then my mama (a single mom most of my life) moved us to the city... Both places are very much home to me. I have family in both Indy and Pa., but most are in Pa. I do miss it there. My daddy died when I was almost 4. He and my mama were soulmates... in fact she did not find love again until 3 years ago. I sincerely pray to God that I am not a senior citizen before I find my true love. I would like to find a man who takes the lead with our relationship. I do believe men and women are especially created to fill certain roles. I want a man who knows how to lead without controlling. I want and require a man who will adore me. I like a lot of attention and I'll let you know if I'm not getting enough or I'll simply lose interest. Any place that we can interact and get to know each other better is fine. Some things I like are nice restaurants, cafes, hole in the wall diners, Final Fridays, First Fridays, concerts, the zoos, museums, anything outdoors, extreme sports, movies (but not on the first couple dates), church, FLYING, and amusement parks.
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Debbie
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I am a single mother of two teenage boys. They are my world and my number one priority. I am very independent and can take care of myself and my kids. With that said I am not here looking for someone to give me money or move me in lol.i work alot and that seems to put a damper on my social life but i would def make time for the rite person. I consider myself a very sweet country girl with a side of sass lol. As long as you treat me rite there is nothing I won't do for you. Treat me bad and you wil def see my sassy side :). I love the outdoors and football is my fav sport. I prefer someone who already has kids. A parent usually understands what it's like to try and balance children work and a social life. BTW if your a douche please pass me by. I have had my fill of y'all on this site. I'm looking for a real man who knows how to be honest whether its good or bad. Not all women are crazy and the majority of women who are became that way because some man didn't know how to just be honest with them from the beginning. Just a little professional advice hehehehe :) Oh yeah, I can be a little out spoken at times so if you want a passive and shy woman ur reading the wrong profile. ****. **********. ***Im fine with men who smoke but if you smoke so much you have to take a pic with a cig in your hand that's a bit much for me****.****************. Oh btw. While I'm very flattered guys that you wanna talk to me I'm not trying to date ANYONE in their 20's. I could almost be your momma and theta creepy.