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Hudde
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Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57
Earlier, I dated some of the most sought after women ... not because I was handsome or rich. I was merely fun, witty and romantic. Yes, it was long ago ... however, I am still the same ... and I would argue much better. Since then I learned how to build and enjoy a long term relationship ... some of my lessons learned include:• Communication is key - at all times with as much honesty as possible• Acknowledging and sharing your feelings is the only hope for true growth• Your mate is not responsible for your happiness - they are there to share it with• Keep your mate safe at night ... it is imperative to keep the seat wiped clean and down • Don't worry about the small stuff - the toilet paper can unroll either over or underSo here is my wish list for my next and final life mate (Top ***non-negotiable …) 1. Trustworthy and loyal – will prize our relationship over everything else2. Primarily a Giver vs Taker – compassionate, kind and wanting to please others 3. Pursuing their best self – through things like meditation, yoga, self help books, religion, etc.4. Sense of Humor – can laugh at me, herself and most any situation – thinks I am funny5. Physically affectionate – loves to cuddle and hold hands - even when we are oldNext 5 … okay, these are negotiable ... but they make for a great list:6. Open - good communicator who can talk/debate without being defensive7. Optimistic - her outlook is generally positive and happy 8. Healthy – takes care of herself by eating well and exercising9. Adventurous – enjoys being active and outgoing … or at least understands my need to be10. Aware - understands the BIG picture of what is going on and is wittyIn general, I have described myself above ... Of course, I am not perfect ... but I am maturing, learning and improving each day. I have traveled throughout the world and learned we are all basically pursuing happiness and self fulfillment. Of course, it is found through self realization and is all the better ... when it is shared with someone special. The question is are you my life mate .. and if so, are you going to reach out for me? If you like tranquility ... How about a walk around the lake at the Lake Shrine -If you like to dance ... How about C&If you like physical challenges ...If you like serene settings ...Whatever your preference ... We can assuredly find a way to share it.
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Gib
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Man. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.
Looking for: woman. In age: 46-56
I'm a single parent raising a 12 year old son. I've had custody of my son for the last 6 years. I love life and I live it full, sometimes though it seems as if my hand feels a little empty. Like to meet someone special who would enjoy putting her hand in mine.I enjoy many things, but the outdoors is where I love spending most of my time. Anything we can do outdoors is fine with me.When it all comes down to that one thing, I want what everybody wants. I want to love like there's no tomorrow, and I want to be loved. I want to take my woman in my arms pull her in tight to my chest so our hearts beat as one. I want to place my lips upon her tender skin of her neck and kiss her. I want to give her that one really soft kiss, yeah you know the one, the one that says I LOVE you without even uttering the first word. I want to be able to look at my woman from across the room, and she knows just by the look in my eye that I love her and that I would never stray from her side. Because....yeah,...I'm just in love with her.....just like that.I want a woman that will walk by my side, through the good times and the tough times. I never want my woman walking behind me, because she is a part of me. One in which I would be happy to bathe in the light that radiates around her. One in which I would be soooo proud just to have her in my life.I just want a woman that I can hold in my hand and become lost in the passion. Somebody who will drink from the cup of life with me, and share the time that we have left here.Yeah,.....I guess you could say,.....I'm a passionate man, and equally so a passionate lover.Thought I would share a poem that I wrote back in ***. re-read it recently and thought this may be a place to share it as I'm sure that their are others who feel the same as I do from time to time.Love!!! Curse or Gift????I called unto thee,change my heart.Better or worse,fill with Love.Day in and out,my cries echoed.Seemingly unheard,sent to above.Never knowing,never seeing.Changes gradual,here now I stand.No anger,No hate.Forgiveness so easy,a better man.I called unto thee,send me out.Open the doors,fulfill the will.Many people in my path,work to do.Still carry love,a touch to feel.A blind man you must lead.Searching for love,seems like a joke.I call unto thee,send a flower to me.Precious as gold,one UN-provoked.Day fades to night,month to year.Heart is heavy,love with no end.Empty arms,I drag my feet.Weary:....I shake my fist,when does it begin???Love bounces,like a ball to the wall.It strikes my eye,it stings as I cry.Why give love???Nobody to share!!!It's a dry heave,why dammit....WHY?????So, I call unto thee,hear me please.Send me a dagger,for some needed relief.Place the pointy edge,above my own love.Drive it through,ending my own grief!!UPDATE.......... Life and love never have to be perfect, only good. Something that I've always said and had it echoed back to me just the other day. Yeah, I'm looking for love, as scary as it may seem to be from time to time. Yet as wonderful as it may be the rest of the time. Passion and love seem to have been pushed to the way side, to allow the rest of the crap to filter in. That is a sad thought indeed, Surely their is one tender soul left out there for me to hold, love, cherish, and share my love and passion with. A quiet afternoon doing something wonderful together. Going for a walk, sitting in a park doing a picnic, ....something nice.
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Jay
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Man. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: woman. In age: 18-31
Hi! My name is Jay. I am never married other african man without kids from Berlin, Maryland, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a woman, love of my life.