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Valarie, 53
United States, Ohio, Akron

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About Me

RECENTLY became a NONSMOKER :)Well hello there! I am single, no children at home, and am looking for a good guy who can be honest with me. I am not looking for Mr. Perfect - just perfect for me. Really not sold on this internet dating...too many people like to meet once, and then date a time or two and then just move on. What is with that? I am seeking a relationship with a great guy - not casual dating. If you are into dating several women at a time, please move on. I am not interested. I have been single a long time ***years ~ until I raised my kids) and now I want to find a steady relationship with a wonderful man who can be my friend, confidante, and lover, too. All my pics are current so please have a current pic of yourself as well. Bonus points if you are a dog lover ( I am allergic to cats) and extra bonus points for Harley rides & boat trips! I love to do spontaneous things and love to surprise and be surprised. Living life is a gift and I want to share the joy of it. Looking for someone who is interested in dating to lead towards a relationship if we meet and find that spark. Do not want to serial date (but do understand dating is part of meeting), do not want a NSA, I want to meet a sweet and HONEST gentleman. A man who can tell me the truth always and be able to communicate like a grown up. A man who is a gentle man but also a real man and treats a lady with respect & kindness, as well as passion and desire, and it will be reciprocated in kind. About me: I am told that I am smart, funny and attractive. I love to laugh with you not at you! I am a fairly happy girl 99% of the time. Have learned that my happiness depends on me and my attitude. I don't need someone in my life for it to be complete - I already am complete but it would be nice to have someone in my life to share my happiness with. I am a giver and like to help others, so I am often doing that. I am spiritually aware and believe that what I do and the person I am is vitally important to me and those around me. I would never intentionally be mean or hurt anyone. I have a generous heart & spirit. I am kind, caring, sensual, romantic and want to find someone who is the same. I am a girly-girl and I enjoy being a woman. I know how to live life on life's term and have learned the tools for living comfortably in my skin...I like me! I like to do a wide variety of things...except not into dangerous thrills, no skydiving, or bungee jumping for this girl! I can enjoy wherever I am and whatever I am doing as long as I am in good company. About you: Someone old fashioned in romance...I would love to be swept off my feet! I will accept you as you are and wish the same in return. Start out with dating and if we have that connection decide together where to go from there. My parents were married ***years so I know what unconditional committed love looks like - it was modeled for me. To his last breath my father still called my mom his "sweetheart" & his "bride". Hoping to find that ONE for me. I hope you are out there somewhere? "A true gentleman does not romance a different woman every night...A true gentleman romances the same woman the rest of his life"...looking for my true gentleman.I have a great job, a great home, 3 grown children, 1 adorable grandson and I truly love life now. Would like to have someone special to share time with. Not looking for forever just for now and go from there.Have a great life...unless you have other plans? Lol :) Meet for coffee/tea - see if we are compatible

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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