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CallieOnline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I\'m a family oriented person, but I love going out and experiencing joys of life. Someone that I’m attracted to, who can keep me laughing, and who can hold an intelligent conversation.
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OpalOnline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Added Note: If you only have a sentence or two on your profile and end it with "If you want to know anything, just ask" - c'mon, put a bit more effort into it.. If i favorite you, I am not trying to be creepy (not that I think that is bad - we all have our thing***it just means that your profile caught my eye and I want to check it out when I have more time.If you wish to message me that is fantastic, I will usually respond (I have not returned several messages due to the fact you have obviously not read my profile). However, please message something other than: "hey", "nice hair", "nice eyes". I don't expect a disertaton - just give me something with which to respond. I am not looking to move quickly into a relationship - get to know each other and go from there - just let things develop naturally. I am not big on drama though I know we all have a bit - it shouldn't define or be a major part of who you are. If we don't "click" just be honest about it - I am open to establishing friendships providing you don't creep me out - you know who you are.About me - 1. I enjoy going out, but I don't like being on the go constantly. Sometimes just hanging out and doing nothing is great. Drinking beer/coffee on the back deck just talking and laughing has been some of the most enjoyable times I have had.2. I find the funny side of just about anything. My humor is diversified: silly, goofy, irreverent, sarcastic,cynical. I love to laugh.3. I hate to clean but enjoy living in a clean house - so I compromise and clean anyway. This is very subjective.4. I do not like mean people - condescending and judgmental make for a negative aura and exudes ugliness regardless of physical beauty. Compassion and kindness are a big turn on and the way the universe intended us to be. (remember: God or whatever you worship don't like ugly)5. I am naturally curious, and I ask a ton of questions - yes, I am one of those people. I just don't know how to know you otherwise. If I don't ask alot of questions, it means I find you unbelievably boring or weird- Although weird I can work with, boring not so much.I know, I know - putting stipulations on what/who i am looking for turns some people off, but why waste time on dealbreakers?1. Please be able to hold an intelligent conversation ***that involves more than the latest sporting event. Stimulate my brain! 2. If you are an avid NASCAR fan - meaning you have an entire room in your house dedicated to the gods of NASCAR, or you spend Sundays glued to the tv - we are probably not going to hit it off very well. Nothing wrong with NASCAR, if you enjoy it rock on; however, not interested in this insanity.3. Be gainfully employed - if you are going back to school, be enrolled otherwise - well, I will just leave it at that. NOTE: I am not speaking of those that have been laid off due to the economy, but rather those that have a constant excuse for not being employed and have not held a job in years. You know the category in which you fit. Let me add, I am not money motivated or materialistic - I am just a believer that one should be self sufficient (men and women alike).4.= just be clean and smell good.5. Sense of humor and upbeat - there are so many things to laugh about and enjoy in life. I enjoy witty banter and that personality is what I respond to the most.7.- please be within 45min of me - it's just top hard to spend much time together otherwise. 8. Let's plan on a casual meeting within a few messages. I'm not into cyber relationships. No reason to keep things going if there is no chemistry.9. If you hate my profile or something offends you, don't send me ugly messages, just move on.I am needing to add this regarding children:I have a rockin' 12 yr old that I adore (at least 95% of the time). You need to understand that although he is my priority, I do like adult conversation and company. With proper planning going out is not a problem; however, getting together on the spur of the moment is not usually an option. His father and I are amicable, but are not "best friends" - so my schedule is somewhat flexible.I am not under any circumstances interested in having more children. Yes, I know they already have a mother (and I know they are your world and your heart, yada, yada, yada - I would expect no less), but I am a very nurturing person and would welcome your children into my life if things were to progress to that point.This profile is not meant to be condescending or mean. I have just dealt with each of these issues in the past and it was not a good thing. I feel that most of the things on my list are just common sense. I am a nice person and am looking for the same. I know what I want and would hope at this point in life you do as well. First meet up - coffee and conversation
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DionneOnline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
This portion, like me, is a work in progress. I am going through a rough patch (the bald head should make that pretty obvious:-)). However, cancer has taught me that my prior belief that I was happy being single & doing my own thing was wrong. I want a long lasting relationship. I want someone to grow old with. I want a partner, someone to walk beside me, someone to make me laugh, someone to share things with, etc. I want someone that challenges me to be a better person. I want someone that nicely points out a different way of looking at things. It should go without saying that I want someone that is honest, hardworking, monogamous, self sufficient, etc, but some of people seem to have difficulty with these things. So, I'll just say up front, I am not willing to tolerate lying, cheating, or paying for everything. I want to be treated like the lady that I am. That does not mean that I expect my man to pay for everything or shower me roses/gifts. I enjoy being a lazy bum, but I also like exploring new places, hiking, camping, playing softball, walking around the neighborhood, sitting by a fire with friends, etc. I love to be on or near the water, but not so much being in it. I also enjoy crocheting, sewing, & other crafts. I like to read, mainly murder/detective mysteries. I also enjoy keeping up with what my kids are reading, so I also read about teenage vampires and the Diary of a Wimpy Kid. My kids are a huge part of my life. We tend to function as one big unit - making decisions together & doing things together. We do enjoy doing things together, which is amazing since two of them are teenagers. We also love getting in the car & Something else we find to be a lot of fun is Geocaching. If you like puzzles & being outside, then you should give this hobby a try! I would love to find someone to go and have fun with when my kids are gone. And hopefully find my forever friend. This part is hard, cuz like most people I am cautious & want to meet in a public place (so if one of us is an ax murderer lots of folks will be traumatized by the violence) and it should be some sort of brief activity so that if either one of us wants to make a quick escape it won't seem so rude, cuz being polite to strangers is super important. Did I mention I am a smart ass? And I love sarcasm, too.I think the second date is more important. It's the one where we've both decided that there is a spark, a possibility, maybe even butterflies. I think this date should be something neither of us have done before, but both have always wanted to do.