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Butterfly, 39

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About Me

Hi! My name is Butterfly. I am divorced christian caucasian woman without kids from United States, Ohio, Dublin. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I act like a lady, think like a man. Don't read too much into that! I'm easy going, no drama, playful & independent. My life story is one that will make you say wow. I didn't grow up with much. I developed a mind that thinks creative and that is also resourceful. I didn't really date in High School, I wasn't confident with anything in my life. I spent the first part of my life watching others. I was clueless about my own life. I fell in love at 18 with a man who took me to church every time the doors were open. I was more in love with what he did for me than him, but it still broke my heart when he moved on. A shattered self esteem and a clueless teenager, I just went with the flow of life. At 21 my world changed with the birth of my son. At 25 I had my daughter and what seemed to be a stable marriage. I'm not really sure what happened but in ***my divorce was final after 18 months of separation.The past 7 years has been a transition for me. I learned to express myself and share my feelings. To become "someone" and feel that I have meaning. Only to have it come back and hurt me. People use to say I wore my heart on my sleeve so I learned to let go of emotions. I have a spiritual connection with God that I'm VERY aware of. My daughter had emergency subdural empyema surgery Feb. 7, ***for a brain infection. She is fully recovered and doing well but I was told she should've been dead. This was another life altering experience. Suddenly, things in this world are less important and people have suffered for my change. I don't want a relationship with my computer, through a computer or phone. So much of life is NOT appreciated because you try to make someone feel a certain way through a device. It's stupid and people are held accountable for their lack of actions of responding. I choose to look at life rather than my phone. The type of guy I'm looking for… or what I'm looking for in a guy. This question is always asked. I am looking for a different level of connection. You can be physically fit, attractive, financially secure and loyal to the core and I may not connect with you. It's very hard for me to connect online so the online part is just a filter. I know my picture says Christmas ***. If you mention it, i know you you havent read this yet ;)There are things about you that I observe that say a lot about your character and personality. I won't tell you those things because I believe everyone should be exactly who they are. It's your life!!! LIVE IT! :) Be a MAN of great faith! "When your affection is kindled, the world of your intellect takes on a new tenderness and compassion. You look, see and understand differently. Initially, this can be disruptive and awkward, but it gradually refines your sensibility and transforms your way of being in the world.”

  • Shawna

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am an independent and adventurous lady who is normally optimistic and always has a smile. I am very active and love the outdoors and nature. I am passionate about healthy living and am looking for someone who feels the same and believes in taking care of themselves through exercise and healthy eating. I'm not obsessive by any means but it is my lifestyle. If you're idea of fun is watching TV on the couch, we just won't be a good match. I'm a fairly down to earth country girl. A bit of a tom boy who isn't afraid to get my hands dirty but have no problem knocking your socks off for a night on the town. I believe in living life to its fullest every day *** putting life off for tomorrow.I am looking for a long term relationship with a man who shares my zest for life. I believe that mutual attraction, respect, and love are all crucial to a successful relationship. Sharing some common interests would be even better. I love running, hiking, camping, travel, photography, and nature/great outdoors. I've been so busy for years raising my kids and building my business that I've had no time for anyone else. Now I'm at a point in my life that I'm ready to fall in love and be in a serious relationship.I'm not looking for perfection but I don't think anyone should settle. I want a partner in life who is crazy about me and I crazy about them. Someone to share this crazy life together and be best friends, lovers, and equal partners in the relationship.***I hate the disclaimers that people put in but experience is showing that it must be necessary so bear with me :) I have 2 kids, 17 & 15, and they live with me full time. I'm not looking for a dad for them but a companion for me. However if this is a problem, don't even bother messaging as they are part of my life period. And I'm not looking for a text buddy. It's great initially to get to know each other however it's hard to really know someone's personality through text so be willing to meet or at least talk on the phone. If you're not willing to do this then you're not really wanting to seriously date and not what I'm looking for at this time. A great first date to me is to meet up in a small cafe and just get to know one another and see if we are compatible.

  • Josie

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Football season is around the corner, better bust a move before I become too distracted by my first love! ; Professional, smart, stubborn, witty and sarcastic.I am looking for my best friend that I prefer to be with above all others because I enjoy their company and conversation. A true companion and help mate. For me, common morals and values are far more important than common interests. There must be mutual physical and emotional attraction.At the end of the day, I want to feel like someone has my back, and we will ride the roller coaster of life together. I want to be able to trust someone with all my stuff that I have been through and will inevitably go through in the future. I have a busy life, so no time for games! Loving someone should be fun, not difficult.I would love to eventually meet the man who will still make my heart skip a beat when I am looking across the table at him gumming my fiber cereal. Something quick and easy to determine whether we can bear the thought of even kissing one another. ;) Or, I am always open to cheering on our home team sports club.

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