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Ernestine, 38

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About Me

I've learned that being a Single Mom and not spending weekends at the Club or Bars makes it hard to meet Men. Not that I would want to date someone I met in a bar.... If it worked out, how do you explain that one to your kids when you try to *** them that being a barfly is NOT what you want to be when you grow up? ;-)I read over my previous profile and it still fits, so here goes....I am a tall, blonde BBW. I adapt to any situation whether it's bbq'ing in the backyard with friends having some drinks or going to an upscale club. I love music, mostly hip hop and rap although I have a very eclectic style of music with albums from some Green Day to Tech N9ne, India Arie and Enya to Pistol Annies.I love coffee, watching reruns of Friends, tattoos, rainy days, avocados, reading a book, sunflowers, dogs, the beach, horses, going for a drive, spending time with my son, dark chocolate, lily's, watching a football or basketball game, fresh tomatoes from the garden and watching funny movies. You will usually find me in a pair of comfy jeans, a tank top or tee and flip flops. I'm quite casual to a fault. I was recently described as someone who doesn't need to be "maintained". I am not high maintenance, I enjoy the little things in life and love to be appreciated for who I am. I am a love me or hate me type of girl. I have my friends, and I'm fine with that. I've learned over the last few years that quality is ALWAYS better than quantity. Size Acceptance is something I am super passionate about. I won't tolerate fat jokes, you don't know that persons history, or medical issues. So, I would speak up if I ever heard someone. I am looking for someone who could be my best friend. Laugh with me when I do something klutzy, or have a blonde moment, or just acting like the dork that I am. Make me feel that sense of security and that I am totally and completely loved unconditionally. But yet, still my own person, not "owned" by my significant other. Someone who is honest and respectful and wants me because of who I am.Please note: Just because it says I'm looking for a relationship does not mean I'm looking for marriage. Im just trying to deter the booty call messages. And if you have read this far, you must be looking for something real also. :-)A fun first date for me would be to just hang out, get coffee or maybe go somewhere quiet enough you could talk and get to know that person better. I'm not into movies on a first date (maybe not even the second or third). I like to learn about someone before I decide to pursue whatever it is we will be doing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Atheist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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