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Merle, 43
United States, California, San Bernardino

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About Me

PLEASE READ DISCLAIMER BEFORE PROCEEDING:So in trying to weed out the wackos, Piranhas and in preserving my time and yours ..if you look like knuckle head I will not be responding to you!If your profile has all pictures but not much to say that's an indication to me that you really are not capable of saying much or really don't have the capacity to express yourself and on another mission. Hey to each their own and whatever floats your boat and makes you happy but I'm not the one for you so don't rock my boat because I don't know how to swim lol (don't judge me )??. Please have some kinda of decency and intellectual substance I don't require degrees or PhDs but have "substance" and with the right bait you might have a great catch.So a little on myself I'm a single mother, a career woman and a kid at heart. I have ambitious goals and work hard to achieve them. I've been told I have a heart of gold and care too much. I guess that's the way I was built as a social worker in me, can't change about myself, but I do acknowledge that caring too much can become your own worst nightmare or a crutch. I love all sports especially Football I'm a diehard Jets fan. I love my Mets and Nets (don't judge me) I guess I'm just an underdog kinda chic!I love having a good time. I work extremely hard so I have to play even harder! The beach,the outdoors and vineyards are my favorite places to find sanity. I love to travel when I get the opportunity searching of beautiful beaches. Below is a favorite poem it talks about the essence of love and beauty I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a womanmust be seen from in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides. UnknownP.S if I say hello the proper thing to say is hello back and keep it moving if you are not interested.... It's not that serious and saying hello also doesn't mean I wanna sleep with you either so don't get it twisted and Happy fishing!I guess a venue where it's quiet enough for some stimulating conversation but active so we don't fall asleep...lol

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Hispanic

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-63

    ..a dash of vinegar...I would love to write something witty and inventive.. but this will have to do!I'm just me... normal, down to earth, average build, average height and living an average life. (Excited yet????) However, I think my own thoughts, do my own thing, have my own dreams and I'm harmless.I love the sea, people, intelligence, humour, animals, books, life, marmite, black pepper, crisp sandwiches, thunderstorms, learning, LITERACY.... in fact, I like a lot of things. (Don't like liver and gherkins though)Yesterday, I sat outside drinking coffee, with the sun on my face... a very simple pleasure, but life felt so good!I think my life of culinary adventure is over before it begins.. Those curry flavoured peanuts didn't make a good sandwich.. Sigh.. back to crisps, then...I reply to most messages, so don't be shy.... but if you write in text speak, or call me "Hun", "Babe" or "Sexy", like some recycled teenager, you are unlikely to sweep me off my feet. Also, if your best effort to create a first impression is "hi" or "how's you" , its most unlikely I'll waste effort in replying.If you are several years older or younger than me, I think I should point out that, to me, age is not merely a number.. sorry!"Save me from myself"Cried the lopsided elfAs he chased himself round and round"..I've seen where I've been,..need a change of scene..I'll run backwards, it's different I've found" ***For the record, "Dating but nothing serious" does not mean that I want a succession of one night stands or casual partners, I am only looking for one person. It simply means that because of other things going on in my life, at the moment, I can't give the time and commitment required for a serious relationship.*** It seems as though some people assume that others are 'there for the taking'. This is not so.. we all have a choice.. so if I don't think you are for me, please accept that it is my right to decide this, as I am my own person, and no one's property but my own. Having seen what often passes for 'athletic build' on here, I'm considering changing my build to 'skinny'!Why do some people put one thing on their profile, and then tell me that they don't mean it, they are looking for the absolute opposite? Don't say something just because you think it's what I want to hear... and why do people with no picture insist that other people must have one to contact them? Pots, kettles, blackA first date.. as a generic guide, probably fairly short and sweet as an ice breaker, with enough background noise to be able to talk comfortably, but quiet enough to hear each other.. light enough for eye contact and to see a smile... but I'm open to ideas, if you can think of something fun to do.

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