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WhitneyOffline
Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 25-45
I can list all the fun activities that I like to do or try… but that’s apparent & immaterial b/c I’m not merely looking for an activity partner--but something deeper & much more. I’ve got enough friends to do ‘activities’ with on any given day. Besides that, there is never a shortage of ways to keep myself entertained or occupied, as I'm not easily bored…. reading, learning something new, TED talks, inspirational articles & pursuing many other interests keep me buoyant & curious! Contemplating, meditating & reveling in silence is what I like ‘doing’ inwardly the most.. even while I’m doing a million things outwardly--best when I can find a moment & some space to reflect upon myself, people, places & the nature of life.. that how I continually update much of my understanding of the world. Random facts (if you really must know):* Can sing in 8 languages, some only a song or two.. but that counts right?! * Fluent in English, Cantonese & Mandarin; also possess a working knowledge of French & Spanish. Would love to add Italian to the mix without blending the 3 in the romance family! * Love salsa & improv latin jazz-- the unrehearsed, flowing language of dance is something that can't be described. Graced the dance floor on 4 different continents & attended salsa congresses around the world. Dancing has brought me some of the greatest joys in my life. Strange how some guys can’t handle that fact.. either b/c it’s something I’m better at than they are, or jealousy creeps in. Expression is what I live for.. the social aspect of dance just adds more fun! I enjoy doing it once in a while.. but it’s not a priority anymore as I have other interests. * Travelled to a different destination for the past few years & visited Asia lots. Barcelona, Prague, Vienna or Costa Rica is next! Learning to surf in Waikiki would be a blast. And Italy was a dream destination that I’d love to revisit.. the south is beckoning :)* Played classical piano when I was young, which sadly dwindled down to chopsticks from not touching the keys for too long. But still love the classics & other romantics.* Photography & culinary arts are also huge passions of mine which I’d love more time to explore.* I'm an ENFP on Myers-Briggs, so my natural personality matches are: INTJ or INFJ.. if you buy into that sort of thing! My match:He has to make me feel safe by demonstrating that he is worthy to be TRUSTED. Not just feed me BS which he thinks I want to hear. I cannot tolerate people with fake intentions. I want an equal partner who is able to LISTEN—not only through the veil of his wants. Some guys have agendas that are way too obvious & talk a bit too much or arrogantly about themselves! A sense of humility & kindness is a must.Someone who is conscientious, reliable & ambitious (not just simply say that he is lol).. whose serious & intellectual side equally weighs his fun, carefree, youthful vitality. BALANCE is what I truly desire to find in myself & anyone whom I choose to associate with. A man who is responsible, well-grounded, honest & self-aware. A true leader who inspires & reflects back the best 'self' that I would like to be! Someone with a familiar soul, drive & spirit.. whom I can be PROUD to venture out into the world with-- because we make each other happy, while carving our way as one—the Yang to my Yin & vice versa.Simply someone who truly wants what I want out of life :)A great date would be when we both realize that time flew by and we want to do it again! Being able to hold a conversation (not just a one-sided one) is a must. Having experience of judging 'characters', I usually know if I will click with someone upon meeting or just from chatting on the phone. I want to be with someone in an everlasting way, so I will look into your soul to see if we're the right fit! lol Move on if you have anything to hide or plan to pretend to be something you’re not. NO sociopaths please!!*Only genuine, humble, intelligent, considerate & self-aware men wanted.*
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KateOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 31-51
I am a 41 year old woman with four children...two girls and twin boys. My oldest daughter lives here in Mobile. My three youngest are living with their father in Germany about to be back in GA where they live after being gone for 3 years. I get them as much as possible. I have been divorced for about 7 years now. Been trying the dating thing for about 6 years. Been in a couple of relationships but nothing that has stuck. It's not so much fun. I love going out for drinks and dancing. I also can stay at home and watch movies. I also love to go to the beach. I like tattoos. I have five of my own. My nose, belly button and ears are pierced. I'm somewhat of a romantic and love it when a guy is too!!! I'm really easy going most of the time...of course everyone can get pissed. I've been told that I am one of the coolest chicks by many guys friends and others. I don't get offended easily. I have a great sense of humor! I love to laugh. I do it often. I also love to make others laugh. I love sarcasm!! I use foul language often! Someone with some intelligence is definitely a plus!!! If you ask my friends I believe they would tell you that I am a very considerate, loyal and a true smartass. I'll go out of my way to help someone if I can (if I like that person). I am a slender, athletic built woman. Looking to find a good guy that isn't into playing games. I love honesty in people especially if I'm going to date them!! I hate...I mean HATE...to be lied to about anything!!!! Even if what is being told to me might piss me off or hurt me I still would like to know the truth!! You can't have any kind of relationship if lies are involved! You have to trust someone to share things with them!!! Oh, and I'm so not high maintenance! I tend to like guys on the thinner, more athletic side. I tend to be attracted to guys that are on the more toned side. Not real picky on hair color. There does have to be some sort of physical attraction though! I don't tend to be very shy! I am a very loyal and caring person. I like a very broad range in music from big band, pop, 80's hair band, a little country, jazz, R&B, etc.. I also have a large range in the kind of movies that I like (huge movie buff)...Mystery, Comedy, Action, Horror, Old black and white movies, etc... Some of my favorites are Sixteen Candles, Weird Science, Superbad, I Love You Man, Transformers (all), HUGE FAN of The Boondock Saints (both) , Smokin Aces, The Notebook, The Goonies, Law Abiding Citizen, The Strangers, Step Up (all),I can't help it but I love dance movies, Pitch Perfect, Wedding Crashers, Jersey Boys, Friday, Lord Of The Rings (all), The Hobbit (all), Stick It, How To Train Your Dragon, Going the Distance,Megamind, Fault In Our Stars, RockNRolla, Bridesmaids, pretty much all kid movies, and many, many, many more. If you are interested...leave me a message and we can see how it goes from there. If not...good luck on finding what or who you want.*** Hint (Hey if you message me and I don't reply...it's my nice way of saying I'm not interested...just see no reason to reply and carry on a conversation with someone if I know I'm not interested. I'm really not a mean hearted b#$%h or think I'm better than anyone just don't want to waste my time or anyone else's...or lead someone to believe I'm interested when I'm not). I appreciate you taking the time to read my long ass profile!**ps...if ya send me a message that says something like "Hi, Sexy" or "You are so sexy" I'm probably not going to reply...thanks!**pss...although I think it's nice that I seem like a cool chic to guys on here (which I am)...I do think it's a little strange if you send me your number in the first message you send me!! Just sayin...Go out for drinks maybe go listen to a band. Get together for coffee. I could also go out dancing. Hangin out, playing pool. Go bowling. Something along those lines. Up for suggestions.
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SilviaOffline
Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-58
I am a funny, sarcastic, fairly blunt girl. I like laughter and stupidity, but also have a realistic approach to life, (Not the glass is half empty or the glass is half full. The glass has something in it and I'll have to wash it when I'm through.) I am very interested in life and what goes on around and in the world. I enjoy comfortable silences, am up for anything, can be a homebody but love to get out for fun and the occassional social gathering. I am not materialistic but realizes money makes it easier to do everything. I have found a church that renews my soul. I would like to share that with my someone but if he wants to sleep in that is fine.I enjoy a good story and give extra points to anyone with a clever and surprising sense of humor. I'd like to meet someone who is intelligent, respectful, energetic, expressive, articulate, considerate and ethical. I prefer a hispanic or caucasian tall man (5'10" or taller), between the age of 35 to 50 who is local, single, independent, busy and wants to spend quality time meeting the right person.Let's meet for coffee or a drink. We can decide what to do next or shake hands and run in the other direction.